<p>Some males are just shy/socially awkward, especially around girls.</p>
<p>Wait a minute, females face the same situations that us males do? Madness. As a male I can safely say that if any women actually came on to me I’d be the one flabbergasted.</p>
<p>I feel the same way about rejection, I’ve never really attempted to ask anyone out (for reasons other than I’m shy) and have always wished a female would do so. So far no luck.</p>
<p>IMO it’s BS to always wait for the guy to ask the girl out. Like someone said earlier: you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.</p>
<p>@Dfa4ever: yeah it’s BS. I tried to summon enough courage to confess, but really, I just couldn’t.
Helping him made me happy, because he seemed very happy…hahaha.</p>
<p>@monochromeaddict: The first time is always the hardest, after that it gets easier to be the braver person. =)</p>
<p>Wait is that situation, really pathetic?</p>
<p>Knowing myself, I would probably be in the same dilemna if placed under that situation. Hypothetically.</p>
<p>However, if you can’t bring yourself to tell him, why don’t you ask a friend to ask for you? Or think of some way to communicate indirectly that you’re into him? </p>
<p>Or you could always ask him to hang out, casually, and go from there…</p>
<p>If a girl tells a guy that she likes him, the guy will have much respect for her in a lot of cases. Guys would love for a girl to confess to them and not the other way around, especially if the girl is an attractive one (personality and looks!) ;).</p>
<p>Fears do not get you anywhere unless you learn how to conquer them.</p>
<p>Tell him how you feel. If he doesn’t feel the same way then move on and find something else to think about…Trust me from experience…</p>
<p>Okay…I’ll tell him.
Now the main problem: he has a girlfriend at the moment.</p>
<p>Hahaha, I feel pathetic.</p>
<p>I want to tell my guy too but he acts like a total friend around me and it would ruin our friendship if I told him. The friendship zone sucks:(</p>
<p>I’ve been watching some guy for a couple of years now too. The problem is, we’re not friends or even acquaintances. I just see him around school a lot and he lives near me so we take the same train. However, I know a lot about him due to the times I see him. In fact, I know so much about him that I feel like I’m stalking himXD.
I have decided that next year, which is going to be senior year, I will try talking to him. By that time, I’ve really got nothing to lose.
So, MyzyTrang, since you know your crush, wouldn’t be easier to confess as opposed to me, who has to go up to some “stranger” and be like “hey, what’s your name?”</p>
<p>Holy cow this place frightens me…</p>
<p>Is it really that hard to go up and chat with someone and then just decide if they like you or not? I mean you usually can tell pretty easily if a guy/girl is into you… its not rocket science and almost all people love not having to make the first move so its a win/win for you… and if you don’t feel it just move on…</p>
<p>Take your feelings with you to your grave.</p>