<p>“I just wish I would have gotten to you sooner, maybe the results would have been different.” </p>
<p>Ajrover, I don’t know if you have a personal connection with the poster you are addressing, but this sounds a little dramatic. </p>
<p>I do agree with some of what you said in your following posts. There are times when you need to just take a chance and run with it. However, there is a difference between taking a chance and having faith in yourself, and taking a chance without considering reality. You mention that Lady Gaga is most likely not paying back her student loans. First of all, she only attended NYU for one or two years. She was not in $200,000 of debt. And obviously, she most likely has the money now to pay it off. You wrote that the field is very competitive, but we should know that going in. There’s a difference between becoming a successful actor, and a pop-sensation. The latter is even more unlikely than becoming a successful actor. How many pop-sensations do we have? In considering how many talented people there are wanting to become extremely famous–we don’t have that many. They are far and few. And, they were most likely struggling with finances and their careers before they got their big break. It’s called a big break because it is not often that it happens. </p>
<p>No one is saying that we have to plan for every step of our lives. In fact, I would think that most posters here discourage that. We have to have dreams and run with them. We have to sometimes take opportunities and not worry about all of the consequences. But there are also times when we have to be realistic. Going into $200,000 worth of debt can cripple someone. Unless someone becomes a major Hollywood sensation, it will take a while to pay off that amount of debt. It will limit many important things that someone needs to do. Loans are not infinite–if you are $200,000 in debt you cannot take out extra loans for a house, or a car. You cannot afford to transport yourself wherever you need to go. It will limit you very much.</p>
<p>You also mention that an actor may not want a family until later in life. That’s really a personal decision. Are you telling me that actors do not date until their 50’s because they want to progress their careers? Sure, some do. But many start dating as they are struggling to progress their careers because it is a very vulnerable time and they could use comfort and passion. They may decide to take their relationship to the next level, and start a family. I think you would be hard pressed to find that no actor between the age of 30-35 on Broadway has kids. In fact, that’s when many individuals in modern society begin to start a family. Surely by the time an actor is 30, $200,000 worth of student loans will not have been paid off. How can they then support themselves and a family?</p>
<p>I am not at all saying to plan out every step of one’s life. But reality needs to be considered. Many people’s goals and values change as they age. Just because right now you don’t expect to start a family until later in life does not mean that it will stay that way forever. Values change. What we want out of life always changes–it’s part of maturing, a process that occurs all throughout life. </p>
<p>You also make it sound as if attending Pace is just settling–and is second to NYU. Pace has great opportunities, and there are several actors currently attending Pace who are currently on Broadway. It is a short ride into the city from Pace. I don’t know if this is what you meant by what I quoted above, but it seems as if you felt you could have "saved’ the OP from choosing the not-as-ideal option. While the training at NYU is great it is not the be-all and end-all of life. Pace offers great opportunities, and the OP will graduate with less debt than many who are attending NYU. Not only does that give the OP a leg up for covering housing and transportation for auditioning once he has graduated, but it allows the OP to feel less burdened than others with more debt. Remember, many of the loans taken out to attend NYU will acquire interest, so the cost is actually greater than $200,000. It is ok to follow a dream, but reality needs to be considered.</p>
<p>If NYU were moderately affordable, then it would make sense to just go for it. But if it were to cost $200,000 to attend NYU, it would not make sense to just follow the dream and worry about the consequences later. A dream is not enough to make everying work out all the time. Many times we have to compromise and do what is ultimately best for us. And not getting exactly what you want the first time can make you a better person. You become more learned and wise, and learn that not everything in life works out just as we want it to. We simply have to make the best out of it.</p>