Fitting in

<p>Im going to be going to UCSD this fall as a freshman. Ive always been the shy type and am quiet when meeting new people. Im going to be dorming, so i hope to make friends. Im a little scared of the transition of living with my parents to living on my own with other people. How do i make friends more easily. P.S. i got accepted into Warren College. How are the dorms here?</p>

<p>Uhhh…try to find a profile that suits u the best and be that person that u want to be and ur best in being. Don’t be “fake” and act to get friends,being yourself is always the best because real friends r the ones who like the real u. U dont want to attract hornets(u know what I mean)</p>

<p>im worried that i wont meet someone who likes me for who i am. idk but i just see people being fake all over the place now in high school. I just want to get out of my shell more and it takes quite a while for me to bond with people</p>

<p>The only reason thats happening is because the Introverts form the minority…so I dont have much say in this. U see,if the quiet ppl formed the majority,we wouldn’t need to try and fit in,we would already have many friends. But now that you are in this environment,I guess u shld just be urself…if you are really desperate,change yourself(as in your attitude and stuff) from day 1 coz ppl don’t like others who suddenly become active when they were once quiet…idk if that applies to your school,but it does in mine haha</p>