Follow your dreams: not the best advice

<p>I'm a rising senior and while I am contemplating about college apps, I realize that following my passion was not the best idea in high school. I love photography so I spent much of my time building a portfolio. I've even collaborated with professional models and makeup artists in the area, who use my photos to build their portfolios.
Despite this, I've never received formal training in photography because my parents believe it is a waste of time. As a result, my passion for photography and listing it as an ec that takes up much of my time won't look very legit on college apps, especially since I'm applying to engineering schools (i.e. UC Berkeley).
I am definitely writing about photography in my personal statement, but I am not sure if I should address the conflict with my parents.</p>

<p>Any advice would be much appreciated.</p>

<p>Definitly dring it up with your parents! Seeing the information you put about your photography…it seems pretty cool and something definitly worth mentioning on college apps. Not many people do photography and eve nif they do…not many get to have portfolios used by higher class people.</p>

<p>Thanks for the encouragement, Firesoulism. Anyone else?</p>

<p>Don’t mention the parent conflict unless you can spin it in a positive direction (like how their opposition led you to seek out a variety of different opportunities to learn from experience, and from this you learned blah blah blah).</p>

<p>“Follow your dreams” is not always the best decision. Actually, it’s usually not.
From the boy who wants to play pro football to the law-school hopeful, there are tons of people with dreams that just aren’t realistic. How many guys actually make it to the NFL? There’s only ~3600 players in the entire league. And job prospects for law school graduates are terrible for anyone but the valedictorian.
Some people really do have what it takes, and I hope you do, but just realize most dreams are really tough to achieve and that sometimes, you have to go with something else.</p>

<p>I actually completely disagree with you. Colleges, especially the top colleges, want to know about you as a person, and that includes your passions. Especially for STEM, they don’t necessarily want another math/science prizewinner/perfect SAT person; they have enough of those. The fact that you pursued this EC so passionately, and to such a high degree will look great, IMHO. In addition, that you have never received formal training in photography is even more impressive. I would definitely put this in your essay and resume. If you need some ideas on how to put it all together; your interest in pursuing an engineering career, and highlighting your photography talent, go to your library and check out a book called “The College Hook” by Pam Proctor. Some of the beginning stories are a little over the top, but all in all, she has some very good advice on putting your best foot forward. Good luck to you!</p>

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<p>This sounds suspiciously like - no one goes there anymore, it’s always too crowded.</p>

<p>That said, I think everyone should pursue their passions. Not to get into college. If you are doing that to get into college, face it, it is not your passion. You pursue your passion because, well, it is your passion.</p>

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I think something that you have devoted time to is a legitimate EC. What would help boost your app is if you have done things like entered contests for photography and won recognition, been paid for your work, had photos published, or stood out in some other way in photography.</p>

<p>Have you done shoots at events? For any clubs? Teams? Volunteer organizations? Has your photography given you some neat experience or opportunity that you can talk about? Those are some ways to talk about your passion and the experiences it has afforded you. Good luck!</p>

<p>I think you should write about photography, focusing on why you’re so passionate about it and how your passion has affected your life and your outlook on the world (which serious photography can definitely do). I would not go into the parent thing.</p>

<p>Completely disagree. </p>

<p>Here’s a post I made on this subject last year: [Applying</a> Sideways | MIT Admissions](<a href=“http://mitadmissions.org/blogs/entry/applying_sideways]Applying”>Applying Sideways | MIT Admissions)</p>

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<p>Well, I’ll have to digest Chris’s advice…
I basically agree- and who can not agree with MIT? But, from a practical standpoint:</p>

<p>It’s a legit EC-- but many kids share it.
You want the right balance. Things you do to advance your own interests, things for your group, and things that benefit others.</p>

<p>I’m with jym- can you show how you used photog in some way that has impact? And, what ECs related to engineering?</p>

<p>Also why do you think this: </p>

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<p>They really like diversity. But, I agree with spdf. </p>

<p>Wow, you are lucky to get a reply from a college rep. I’m impressed. I don’t see a lot of those.</p>

<p>um.
it’s still a legit EC. professional training, or no.</p>

<p>We have the argument on CC all the time about “I do it, I do it lots of hours, I really like doing it. It’s my passion.”</p>

<p>Does that make you a competitive candidate? I do agree with MITChris- but after the sideways approach, you have to show maturity, judgment and impact. Or, someone else will. Remember the idea of show-not-tell.</p>