But, it’s equally naive to assume that “stereotypes aren’t used against” others, as well.
To a great degree, what we all have to face is the Law of Supply and Demand. If there’s too much demand for a particular type of school, find an alternative. As long as everybody clamors for the same 10 or 20 or 50 schools, those schools have all the control.
Your son sounds very wise, @Texasmomof3!