<p>I found this post today right after last night I thought I had completely made up my mind to go to Cornell. I have reasons too-
-Cornell is especially good at undergrad science and I really would like to be a research scientist
-It is large with many facilities, but also has many smaller groups for a closer-knit feeling. This is about as big as I would want to get. anything higher than 15,000 students is too much for me.
-I think I have strong enough academics and work etic to get accepted and succeed there
-I'm visiting in OCtober, so I'll find out if it really fits for me then</p>
<p>BUT! I read this thread. I start to remember other schools I have been eyeing up- especially St. John's in Annapolis. It seems SOOO cool, but does't have the prestige that some look for. I was okay with that.</p>
<p>And now I am about as stumped as ever. Two complete opposites, but I want them both equally. Would I be conforming to society if I went to Cornell? Would I upset my parents if I didn't go somewhere they thought I would choose (parents never graduated from any college but talk to people who supposedly know everything about college. I really don't have too much pressure from them, and I know I can do great things if I go anywhere, but. . .)?</p>
<p>I don't want to take the "easy route" and just go to an Ivy. But maybe this thread is making me think that I would be a conformer if I do.</p>
<p>I WANT to follow my heart, but I really think my heart will e happy in either direction- so how do I choose?</p>
<p>ANYWAY. . .For the longest time I have been thinking "who needs the bloomin' Ivies? Some school are even BETTER than them in many areas." So I agree with the "road less travelled" theory. </p>
<p>But I suppose if an Ivy really appeals to somebody, it can't be bad or uncool. I bet college is fun no matter where you go. </p>
<p>Such is the problem when say a certain type of fashion comes into style and I really like it. Sometimes I don't like it because they are popular at the time, I think they are pretty, fun, cheap, or comfortable. But I'm not sure whether or not to buy because I don't want to be seen as some designer label babe. But I like it, so I buy it anyway. I</p>
<p>f this makes any sense, I don't think we should berate Ivy schools because we are feeling inferior or whatever (I've certainly done it before, but that doesn't make it right). But we should recognize that other schools have merits and for GOD's SAKE- you will have a job even if you don't graduate validictorian from Harvard Law and speak six languages. The founder of the human genome project went to CANISIUS COLLEGE in BUFFALO NEW YORK (not amazing, 72% acceptance and 19% have 2.0-2.9 gPa) for undergrad., a and she is just fine. </p>
<p>So yes- individuals create success. Ivies can help sometimes- maybe with a such a rigorous course-load you are inspired to work harder? I don't know. I still don't know what I am doing myself. </p>
<p>I'm sorry my posts are so long- I don't think they are until I start scrolling and go WOw! I hope you don't mind. I hope I made some sense.</p>