<p>Phear,
I truly have no idea what you’re talking about when you speak of mediocrity and God’s will in ‘response’ to what I was saying. Here’s what I hear your assumptions are (other than some meandering stuff):<br>
- People are successful insofar as they make a lot of money and/or have a lot of power. Ergo: Money/power is directly proportional to success.<br>
- Anyone who doesn’t make a lot of money and/or have a lot of power obviously wants to, but can’t.<br>
- Since Ivy league schools increase your chances of landing a megamoney job immediately post graduation (not sure if this is proven, but let’s say it is), and since success is proportional to megamoney, then ipso facto, Ivy League school pedagrees are directly proportional to success.</p>
<p>Here are the fallacies:
- You choose to define success purely in the way that you yourself perceive success. To you, there is no other success except a ton of money and big toys and a big stick. Since you define success only by your yardstick, you are at a loss as to how to measure other forms of success, and simply deny they are there, or conflate them with ‘mediocrity.’ Artists, priests, dancers, carpenters–according to you, these people are all failures or mediocre, since they don’t make a lot of money and don’t have a lot of ‘power’ in its crude, ‘big stick’ sense.
- Since you have blinders around all other forms of success you simply cannot see others’ happiness and success in an array of different careers and life choices. You deny they are there.
- Statistically, there is not strong, unchallenged proof that an undergrad Ivy education translates into higher long term salaries on average. I’ve seen stats making the cases of both sides. If there is a correlation, it’s debatable if the Ivy League college itself is responsible, since many students enter the schools already with intelligence, high skills, and major connections: Dad is a Congressman, Mom works on Wall Street. It’s true that Ivies give you a leg up on connections in some jobs. It’s the Club aspect, though. And you’ve got to make use of it. Merely going there means nothing. At all.</p>
<p>In addition:
- Most jobs depend on your grad school, not your undergrad. I’ve known many, many people (not a handful) who have gotten into prestigious grad schools from mediocre undergrad (me included). It really depends on how you do in your undergrad. Many grad schools search for a diverse student body–they really, really don’t want an entire med school made up of Yale and Harvard undergrads.<br>
It’s a big world out there and there are plenty of extremely bright, ambitious young people who
a) couldn’t afford an Ivy
b) weren’t positioned in high school to get into one (didn’t have the support system to help them)
c) matured in college and proved their worth there.<br>
d) were simply vastly more impressive than their mediocre Ivy counterparts.</p>
<p>Trust me, grad schools absolutely are NOT impressed by Ivies, just for the sake of ‘Ivies.’ They are far more impressed by research, recommendations, work done, etc. </p>
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<li><p>College is a life transforming event. IT’s very very important to find a place that will raise you up and in which you can raise others. Going to an Ivy just because you want to make a ton of money on Wall street so that you can buy a big house and thump your chest is one route, I suppose. If that’s your cup of tea, you’ll find many people just like you who define themselves purely by externals. Some will wake up one day and wonder why they’ve been doing what they’ve been doing. But other people define themselves by internals–how much they give joy, how much they contribute to society or themselves, how much they achieve excellence and surround themselves with excellence, in art, in helping others, in surrounding themselves with a loving family or community, etc. And for those whose goal it is to earn money, many don’t need an Ivy to make it happen. </p></li>
<li><p>Literally, the ONLY people I’ve EVER known who have swooned over Ivies are people who have gone to Ivies themselves (undergrad). Ever wonder how the Ivies make so much money? Could it be by honing in on a gullible, insecure customer base such as yourself, who honestly believe their propaganda? People who WANT to go to an IVy because it’s for them–because of the community of learning, the students, the profs, etc.–these people will get so much more out of an Ivy than those who go to one because they want to enter the gilt doors of Wall Street. And if you want to make some dough, there are MANY MANY paths open to you other than an Ivy. I know many restaurant and small business owners who went to state colleges (or no college) and are earning a half million.</p></li>
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