Girl confusion

Pre-College Issues High School Life
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<p>Hey guys</p>

<p>First off some background info. I'm Indian, and as many of you know it's not really acceptable to have a 'girlfriend' at this age in our culture. I'm sure many of my brown colored CC friends can relate :]</p>

<p>For half of the day, I attend a different school for Math and Science classes. This different school offers better courses and harder more AP's and all that jazz, and the top 10 or so kids from a whole ton of schools from around the area attend this school.</p>

<p>We had a lock-in at this school, which is basically like a dance/party that lasts all night. One of my classmates brought some friends from her normal school to it, and I am really crushing on her. I only met her and hung around her for like 7 hours, but man this is insane. I'm not usually one to 'crush' easily, but this time it's got me good. </p>

<p>We hit off pretty well, I made her laugh a whole ton and I emanated lots of positive vibes :P There are a few problems tho, however</p>

<p>This girl goes to a totally different school and lives in a totally different city. The city is a good 30 miles away, and I can't drive yet.</p>

<p>The parents. They wouldn't approve of having a girlfriend even if I asked her out and said yes. If I do go ahead and do something, however, I don't plan on telling them.</p>

<p>She's a mormon. I don't know what their culture and rules are like, or how strictly she follows them and what not.</p>

<p>I've only known her for seven hours. Is this creepy? :P</p>

<p>I didn't get her number but I did add her as a friend on Myspace, would it be awkward to ask for her number over the internet (stalkerish)</p>

<p>I know I may be acting weird but i've never felt this way before. Even if we can't be in a relationship i'd at least like to know her better and be good friends, but there are still all these barriers in place. Someone help me out?! :p</p>

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<p>Although, I, as a girl, do think that what you said is totally creepy after 7 hrs of meeting her, if I was that girl /and/ attracted to you, it probably wouldn't be that creepy. lol.</p>

<p>the only point that you said that i can really relate to is the mormon. i'm sorta crushing on a mormon guy. but the difference is that i know him and i know that he can't date until he's a certain age. idk about different religions , but generally, mormons don't really care about different cultures.</p>

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<p>I think you're just temporarily infatuated. My school has those "lockdown" type things also, where it's a huge party/dance for 12 hours. For some reason, all my female friends seemed more attractive during those 12 hours than they usually did. Flings always happen at this dance, but they usually never last long. In fact, last year I went out with a girl because we hit it off well during this dance. I totally regret that decision.</p>

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<p>I think it'd be good to just get to know her on Myspace or wherever else seems comfortable. It's probably just infatuation, but you might get a good friend out of it even if things don't go well romantically.</p>

<p>Also, as long as it doesn't seem like you're attacking her, you can probably ask about her religious, etc beliefs; I'm sure she wouldn't mind explaining them to you if you ask nicely.</p>

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<p>Is there a problem dating someone of a different race or religion? No, of course not!</p>

<p>Is there a problem dating someone who you knew for 7 hours in a situation where she basically couldn't get away from you if she didn't even give you her number and she lives 30 minutes away with no way to get there on a regular basis? Yeah. I say you had a night of fun, as did she. And that's what it will stay.</p>