Girlfriend is Pregnant and I feel My Life is Ruined

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No pun intended?

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<p>Nope, none at all, although I thought of that sometime after I posted the message.</p>

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Let's not get crazy now :P

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<p>Most likely "getting crazy" is what got him in this situation in the first place. He'd do well to take my advice.</p>

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Or he could wear a condom and nail as many young girls as possible before marriage. Sigh.

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<p>You forgot to mention the STDs, the risk of being falsely accused of rape, and the risk of having to possibly having to pay child support for kids which aren't his. Try telling the judge "I k-know that's not my kid, I-I used a condom!!!". And BTW, paternity tests mean SQUAT in some instances, so you shouldn't rely on those to set you free. </p>

<p>If NeedsHelp08 follows your advice, we'll probably be seeing him again, this time as NeedsHelp09/10/11/etc.</p>

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My sympathies to your situation. From what you have said, you seem to be an extremely responsible individual who is being @#@#@! over for a mistake that someone else made.

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<p>Despite what some people think, no one gets pregnant by themselves - even if they intended to, that doesn't absolve the actions of the other individual. </p>

<p>Having sex without some form of birth control on your part is <em>not</em> responsible. Even if she said she's allergic to latex, he should have boughten some latex free condoms. This was just as much his mistake as hers. Period.</p>