<p>I made a really bad mistake.
I got really drunk last night and slept with my best friend's girlfriend.
I don't know why..I always have been sexually interested in her but I didn't know that she was interested in me too.
My friend is really mad at me and he broke up with his girlfriend.
I hope to keep the friendship going. He blames her more than he blames me though, so things should patch up.
However, the girl I slept with thinks the best solution is that I start dating her.
I'm confused about what to do.
I find her to be incredibly attractive (even though she isn't very intelligent- near-perfect grades and a Honors student but only has a 1400/2150 SAT) but I feel that if I start dating her that won't go so well with my good friend.
Bros before hos? Right, ;)
What should I do?</p>
<p>1400 SAT is not intelligent? And you're in college, yet declaring SAT score a sign of intelligence? This forum is hilarious.</p>
<p>Haha I find the factors you use to judge intelligence really funny. And getting drunk doesn't excuse sleeping with your friend's girlfriend.</p>
<p>Bros before hoes only applies if you think the girl is a ho. Given that she cheated on her boyfriend, there's a good chance she's a ho.</p>
<p>And if you're not in college yet, why are you posting in the college life forum? Take your immature crap to myspace or something. I sure as hell hope you and this girl used some contraceptive (on the slim chance that this is actually true) because your DNA should not be spreading and you would make one hell of an awful father.</p>
<p>Now that I re-read it, it's either a definite troll or someone who deserves a baby.</p>
<p>Seriously, NO ONE ever references SAT scores after High School graduation. Not even the braggiest of braggers.</p>
<p>
[quote]
near-perfect grades and a Honors student but only has a 1400/2150 SAT)
[/quote]
</p>
<p>I was going to make a comment about this, like "Seriously? You're measuring her intelligence by using her SAT score?" but I was beaten to it.</p>
<p>Troll or not, I'll answer the question. I don't get why your friend is more mad at his gf then you, he should also be mad at you, too. You're his best friend and you betrayed him. I would say that having a relationship with this girl wouldn't work out. If she cheated on your best friend, who says that she wouldn't cheat on you, too? Plus, you were drunk. Epic fail.</p>
<p>I bet you're a virgin.</p>
<p>Trollllllllllllll</p>
<p>I bet he's the one who got 1400/2150 and yet wants us to say that 1400/2150 doesn't mean that someone is dumb.</p>
<p>Reason why this thread seems fishy.
1) If you're highly sexual interested in someone then you should've already talked to her and that would allow you to know her feelings. Especially if she's your best-friend's girlfriend.
2)even though she isn't very intelligent- near-perfect grades and a Honors student but only has a 1400/2150 SAT... ***. Plus, by your name it would seem likely that you judge her based on IQ. lol... 700/700 is very good...</p>
<p>Verdict: TROLL POST... doesn't even explain how his best friend found out...</p>
<p>I apologize for posting this on the College Life forum.
I didn't see the High School life one but yes I still am a high school student.</p>
<p>
<p>Verdict: TROLL POST... doesn't even explain how his best friend found out...
</p>
<p>I'm sorry for not making things clearer before.</p>
<p>As for #1, last year, when my best friend started dating her, I was dating another girl. We broke up since then. Since it seemed my best friend and her had a 'solid' relationship- I didn't want to muddle things up by letting her know that I had feelings for her. I thought this was something I could hide forever- my own dirty little secret and I could move on with my life with other 'fish in the sea'. However, we both were drunk and apparently she was interested in me too. If she wasn't, we wouldn't have had sex. </p>
<p>As for #2, if she is going to be sleeping around and cheating on her boyfriend, she obviously can't be that intelligent. She's a teacher's pet type and gets good grades.
Knowing her SATs (too bad I don't know her IQ, ;) LOL!!!) helps my confirmation. My other theory is that she has a strong dislike for my best friend and this was her clever plan to get out of the relationship.</p>
<p>I didn't think how my best friend found out was important but she was hosting the house party that night and we were sleeping on her bed. He found us the next morning. She said she locked the door but I guess she 'forgot' too. The wonders of alcoholic beverages! At the time, it felt like it was so worth it. I'll admit that I am a screw-up. I couldn't stop thinking about her. We would flirt all the time in English class and stuff. The way she dresses also leaves little to the imagination. She is very seductive. I almost feel like a fool for thinking it's possible that she was deliberately trying to seduce me.</p>
<p>I decided not to date her. I can find someone else easily but I may have destroyed my relationship with my best friend forever.. I'm trying to do everything I can to mend things. </p>
<p>Yet again, I'm sorry for posting this on the wrong forum. I am not a COLLEGE STUDENT but am in HIGH SCHOOL where SAT scores actually do matter somewhat.</p>
<p>No, your SAT scores don't matter at all, you're very mistaken if you think they have any impact on your life after applying to college. You're not in college. There is a high schooler's forum.</p>
<p>Go away.</p>
<p>Why are you using SAT scores in a potential relationship?? Intelligence holds some weight, but I'll rather be with someone who is emotionally compatible with me. Someone who makes my heart warm deep inside. He may not major in the same things I do, but as long as we care for one another, that's all that matters.</p>
<p>Yeah, and everyone knows the ACT > SAT anyhow.</p>
<p>i don't know what she was thinking; i sure as hell wouldn't sleep with someone who chooses a hookup based on SAT score..</p>
<p>Epic fail. <em>Facepalm</em></p>
<p>
[quote]
As for #2, if she is going to be sleeping around and cheating on her boyfriend, she obviously can't be that intelligent.
[/quote]
</p>
<p>If you're going to be sleeping around and betraying your best friend, you obviously can't be that intelligent.</p>
<p>Not epic fail. Major liquid failure though. <em>facepalm</em></p>
<p>I just hope that my friend will be happy soon that because of me he's no longer dating a stupid slut.</p>