<p>I thought I had to share this funny conversation that I overheard between two girls in class the other day. These two girls were complaining to one another that whenever they wear short skirts or low cut tops, guys are always trying to check out "their goods" (as they put it). They complained that all guys are perverts and their privacy should be respected. I couldn't held but smile a little when I heard this. In a way, I also felt a little offended. I hate when some girls things all guys are perverts. I'm in no way a pervert, but I've been in situations where a girl bent over and I saw her cleavage or when a girl's skirt is too short and you can see up it. I don't do it intentionally, but sometimes the situation is just there. I look (like a typical guy would), but I always feel a little awkward. I am curious about a girl's point of view. Do you get offended if somebody looks down your blouse or up your skirt (not intentionally)? Should girls have a right to complain if people are looking at them? Maybe I'm not like most guys, but I've never found girls who need to show themselves off as attractive. I like girls who are moderately dressed. You can look just as attractive in a longer skirt or dress and a shirt where you're not showing off your cleavage to everybody.</p>
<p>Yeah, it is disturbing when guys stare down your shirt. What, am I supposed to wear a turtleneck and ankle-length skirt at all times or have to put up with being leered at by horny, frustrated college pricks? </p>
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<p>I think no explanation is needed and you’ll realize how dumb what you just typed is on your own.</p>
<p>ok it depends girl to girl
some girls like to show their cleavage and then blame on the guys for looking or vice varse
but girls need to know that if you wear something inappropriate guys will look “their goods”
i think girls just need to be themselves around guys rather than showing off their stuff</p>
<p>That’s BS. It’s obvious that they like it and just want to flaunt it to one another. Girls dress that way to get attention. I hold the same opinion as you. You don’t need to show cleavage to look attractive. Honestly, I would feel offended if people stared at my breast or hump, but if I was dressed slutty, then I was really asking for it. I’m a girl and let me tell you this- girls are full of BS. Yes means no and no means yes. Not even kidding.</p>
<p>I’m a girl. If I wear a shirt that is cut low enough to show off my cleavage or a skirt high enough to see my arse or other regions, then no I’m not offended, nor should I be. I CHOSE to wear that. I didn’t have to. A tshirt and jeans would have sufficed (which is what I do wear). So when a girl wears a skirt too short or a shirt too low then guess what? You aren’t normally doing it for yourself honey. You’re doing it to show off. So don’t be surprised or offended when a guy looks at you. And don’t complain about it, girls find it just as annoying as guys because you know the girls complaining LOVE the attention. </p>
<p>I don’t own skirts or low cut tops. They’re just uncomfortable.</p>
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<p>Like I stated before, girls don’t have to dress in the shortest skirts and low cut shirts to look attractive. Some girls might think that’s the case, but it really isn’t. I always find girls more attractice when they wear knee length dresses or skirts and nice blouses or shirts. Maybe I’m not in the majority, but that’s just me.</p>
<p>Why was that a dumb question?</p>
<p>@romanigypsyeyes I agree with you, girls love attention</p>
<p>If I wear a low cut top, I expect that some guys will look, and I deal with that. If I didn’t want anyone to look at me, I would wear a top that had an inch more to it, which I do a lot of times, at least during class. I must say that I enjoy fashion, and most of the tops I like tend to have deeper cuts. I’m attracted to them for some reason. But I really don’t care if a guy looks at me, so its not a problem. Though anyone staring at me in any outfit for an excess amount of time is creepy.</p>
<p>I mean heck, sometimes girls are wearing such low cut tops and short skirts that I can’t help but to stare and I have no attraction to females whatsoever.</p>
<p>I hate when I wear a belly shirt and all the girls look at me. Can’t a guy stay cool on a hot summer day?!?</p>
<p>Ummm, you’re in public.</p>
<p>Freedom from being stared at isn’t a right. Cover up or deal with it. </p>
<p>I mean, it’s like making a huge row or shouting on the phone and expecting people not to stare at you. </p>
<p>Some people have no sense of a social contract at all.</p>
<p>I’m actually surprised most people have the same feeling as I do. One funny thing that sort of relates to this topic is when me and a buddy of mine went to the beach last summer. There was a girl walking in a bikini (with what looked like with her boyfriend). She was very attractice and we both checked her out for a couple of seconds. It’s not like we started for a long time. We took a quick glimpse and kept walking. The next thing we know, the guy who she was with asked us what gave us the right for us to check out his girlfriend. We were sort of stunned for a second and didn’t know what to say. The guy said that we shouldn’t be checking out other people’s girlfriends. We both had to laugh after the guy left. Shouldn’t the guy expect that? I’m noticed guys checking out my girlfriend a few times when we walked on the beach when she was wearing a bikini, but it never got me mad. I think it’s just human nature for guys to do that.</p>
<p>@nonantianarchist haha, i wonder if guys wear muscle shirts to impress girls?</p>
<p>^^You should have replied back with a witty retort</p>
<p>I’m always up for a little verbal sparring</p>
<p>^ Lmao @NonAntiAnarchist. </p>
<p>It’s true though. Guys walk around topless in the summer- are girls allowed to look at them? Do you see them complaining because they are being stared at for making a CHOICE to show off- no! </p>
<p><em>Has a very funny short vision in her head of a guy going to his friend “Aw man, why are all these chicks looking at me? It’s so awkward. Can’t a guy just walk in public anymore?!” (all in a very prissy whiny voice)</em></p>
<p>Ok… I’m done. Ah I get slap happy at 1:30 lol.</p>
<p>Oh boy, everybody laughed at my comment. I’m totally going to stop mixing this alcohol and Zanex now. Thanks guys :)</p>
<p>@ red- I’d be p*ssed at my fiance if he got upset over that. I used to model- I’m used to the stares. It’s whatever. It shows more of the guy’s insecurities if he goes off the deep-end because some guys are looking. If anything, he should be flattered that someone that attractive would go out with an insecure male such as himself.</p>
<p>My bf will point out any guys that “check me out.” He gets pretty happy about it. I have no idea why someone half naked at the beach would be offended by someone checking them out. That guy must have been insecure. I mean, even I’m secure, and when my bf is fully dressed and girls look at him, I don’t feel the need to walk up to them and say “NO! Mine.” Who would ever feel the need to do that?</p>
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<p>Can you send me some pictures? (jk!).</p>
<p>I could tell that the girlfriend was a little embarrassed by her boyfriend’s comments and looked a little mad. I wouldn’t be surprised if that relationship didn’t last too long after that.</p>
<p>Isn’t the whole reason why guys go to the beach is to check out girls?</p>
<p>^ Not alllll guys lol. Remember, some guys are there to check out the guys too :p</p>
<p>I’m sorry this is so random, but what the hell is your username? It’s giving me dyslexia…</p>