<p>It's a lost cause to try and understand your opposite sex. For me, I have not a clue about what guys are thinking when they do some of the things they do... also, regarding the physical appearances(bulky or slender), it doesn't matter. For the most part, I feel more attracted to taller guys. I'm like 5'7" and always wear 2-3" heels. It makes me uncomfortable when guys are ALOT shorter than me. BUT, the most important thing is confidence... I don't care how you look but if you're selfconscious about everything, then I won't be comfortable.</p>
<p>when im not lazy, maybe another time i will copy this quote about how women and men are different, its from i think xenocide by orson scott card, or at least one of the ender's game series. lol, u will all love it. maybe remind me another time or pm me and by then i may feel like doing the work to get it and post it, lol</p>
<p>anyone who says he or she doesnt care about looks is lying. It's impossible not to care about the physical attributes of another person.</p>
<p>when im not lazy, maybe another time i will copy this quote about how women and men are different, its from i think xenocide by orson scott card, or at least one of the ender's game series. lol, u will all love it. maybe remind me another time or pm me and by then i may feel like doing the work to get it and post it, lol</p>
<p>i didnt really even read this thread, lol, just the first post, thats how lazy i am right now . lol</p>
<p>Gta255 I agree to some extent.</p>
<p>"anyone who says he or she doesnt care about looks is lying. It's impossible not to care about the physical attributes of another person."</p>
<p>i have to agree</p>
<p>lets hear some preferences...</p>
<p>myself... im' partial to hispanic chicks, and don't mind a little extra weight... (could be even better sometimes)</p>
<p>myself... attracted to tall, slightly built(a little chubby can be so cute, too), CONFIDENT, don't care about hair or anything- short, long, shaved- it's all good, and good teeth. Also, guys- please dress in clothes that fit properly... a big pet peeve of mine. Same thing for girls, though, we(my gender, not including me) tend to get stuff too small and have ourselves hanging out everywhere... simply tacky.</p>
<p>"I'd like my man-meat on the rare side, with an order of frie..."</p>
<p>oh. those preferences. heh. </p>
<p>Perhaps it's my height (4'11.5") and slight-but-muscular build, but I like my guys big. Big enough that they can pick me up and sling me over their shoulder. They don't have to be uber-muscular, but I'm not into the male-model-slender look. Nice eyes and teeth are a must, good skin is preferable. Ethnicity and race not important. </p>
<p>Needs be able to converse intelligently, and be versatile (i.e. enjoy drinking tea, going to see sports, going to concerts, washing cars on the turn of a dime) and good to his mother. Does not need to remember birthdays or anniversaries, since I'll forget them too, but small surprises are nice. </p>
<p>Does not need to be able to kill mice and insects, because I do it myself. However, needs a strong stomach, because I relish dissections. Shy guys are especially sweet to me, especially if they're terrible at acting nonchalant.</p>
<p>hello tebro, i'm highly tempted to steal your future husband. especially if he happens to be jewish, have green eyes, and is not afraid of victorian decor.</p>
<p>I love boys with green eyes.</p>
<p>What do guys think of girls that make the first move? It be from asking him out, or just asking him to slow dance...</p>
<p>You're doing the guy a HUGE favor if you ask him out instead of him having to do it.</p>
<p>one question. Why are you more likely to find a single girl among a group of boys hanging out than vice versa?</p>
<p>really? i see guys with mostly female friends a lot more often. maybe it's because guys think it'll detract from their masculinity? i have no idea.</p>
<p>deus--you do that and I'll sic my teapot on you. </p>
<p>Actually, I think you and I have the same taste in guys. Victorian decor...mmm... (Although I'm also a big fan of the minimalist movement. Black and white and glass and steel, Mapplethorpe and Ansel Adam prints on the walls, maybe a shocking spray of brilliant red ginger flower as an accent.)</p>
<p>But away from decor, green eyes are quite ravishing. However, the guy I'm currently sneaking glances at, has the most fantastically gorgeous pair of blue eyes. So. Blue. I <em>heart</em> intense colors. </p>
<p>Come to think of it...his eyes are the color of one of my eyeshadows--MAC Electric Eel or Milani Blue Ice. Heh...</p>
<p>tebro, if you ever find time to open a interior design company between slicing people open (erk) i will go all consumer whore on it.</p>
<p>hahaha!! </p>
<p>What about the bastard love-child of Victorian and minimalist? </p>
<p>(Old windows of frosted glass in lovely designs and heavy steel moulding, curtains of sleek pearl-gray silk. Creamy white marble floor tiles, with a single diagonal of black inlaid with gold filagree. Fantastic Victorian sofa with all the trimmings, done up in shades of gray and pale gold. Simple square glass table with heavy claw legs matching the steel moulding on the windows. </p>
<p>And a teaset, elegant fluted cups and magnificent detailing on the teapot/sugar bowl/creamer, in black china. Meanwhile, Mapplethorpe's stunning male models stare at you from a frame of simple gold.)</p>
<p>"victorian decor"</p>
<p>Don't make me salivate.</p>
<p>w t f...</p>
<p>it's like y'all are talkin in some kind of alien language... spooky!</p>
<p>asian chics all the way man. They're so sexy. The thing about them is that they are really hot or not hot at all. The really hot ones make me go crazy</p>