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<p>I do think some of the grousing comes from students who would prefer an experience that is less humbling.</p>
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<p>I agree with this whole post. No matter what you are great at, you're going to meet somebody at HYPetc. who does it better, AND is smarter than you, AND is such a nice person that you can't resent them for it. It forces you to find ways to be comfortable with yourself that don't involve being the Best Whatever-It-Is. If you come to terms with that, as most kids do, the result is a lot of newfound maturity -- it did me a world of good to be a role player instead of a superstar. If you can't adjust, as a few kids can't, the result may be resentment toward the school or fellow students.</p>