^^exactly. In addition, I have seen roommates getting upset with each other when one party overcooked and damaged a pot, it became difficult to replace part of a set and the other party was not happy.
When DD talked to her father, her father also suggested her to pay so as to “maintain” a good relationship. DD is planning to discuss on what will be shared and what will not be moving forward.
At this point, we think that the roommate is just not used to dorm room living.