<p>Help! I am having problems developing friendships here at Duke. Meeting people isn’t hard for me, I know a ton of people, it’s just everyone that I know is more of on a “oh hey, how’s it going” basis, and I can’t seem to develop a close friendship. Back in high school, I again, knew a ton of people, but had 2-3, really good friends and we hung out together constantly, and had a great time. I've been trying really hard to get to know people these past weeks, but i just can't seem to find the close friends that I had. What am I doing wrong, and what should I do?</p>
<p>Just give it time. I suggest going to all the parties you can and inviting some friends to divines every once in a while</p>
<p>Just give it some time. It’s still early on. Even though I spent my freshman year at another university, I didn’t start developing close friendships until maybe January or February. I hope it doesn’t take that long, but just be patient.</p>
<p>I agree with everyone else. Those strong relationships develop over time. I will say for me though the best way I got those was having late night drunk/sober talks in the common room with people.
Also, if you have a passion or interest in anything join a group that focuses on it, dukes got some good groups (and you can always make your own if theres not one)
Anyway best of luck</p>