Help with a big conflict about Notre Dame?

<p>I went to Colgate in the 80’s, really not knowing better. There were less than 5 Asians in my class. At that time, part of our core was a Philosophy and Religion course. I also found that out when I came on campus. As a potential physics or math major, I was beside myself. Now 25+ years later, it is one course I remembered. It made a very big impact on me. </p>

<p>As a minority, growing up I was used to be uncomfortable (it’s the level that’s different). Colgate back then was very white and preppy. Most kids there were at a social economic level I was not accustom to. It wasn’t easy to fit in. But in trying to do so, I learned a lot about myself and how to navigate through unfamiliar (unfriendly) territory. </p>

<p>One very important thing I learn is not to jump into conclusion about people’s intention because of my own bias. At school, some of my friends would say things, at first may appear to be racist, but really they were just not exposed to other culture. </p>

<p>I am sure part of the reason I was offered a nice scholarship to Colgate back then was because of my race. But I think it was mutually beneficial for Colgate and myself. The education has served me well. I would always be grateful for it.</p>

<p>No, I wouldn’t send my kids to a hostile environment. But I don’t see anything wrong to be minority. As a woman, an Asian, working in finance, I am always a minority.</p>