<p>I have a question. I am female in my early thirties and my mentor who was my female teacher in her mid 50's(college). When I was her student she invited me to her house to help me study. I thought it was kinda odd and crossing boundaries as student/teacher. But I needed help in the class so I went. The way she had looked at me deeply in the eyes and then asked me if I wanted to come over to her house for help gave me some sort of "vibe". She is married and so am I. Both of us with kids, her's being older and in college and mine are toddlers. She always would compliment me on my looks. We had to text message eachother a couple of times related to school (all the students have her number-not just me) but it seemed as though we got sort of close. She invited me to her house again to study but that time I said I thought I would be fine with the class. One day when the semester was almost over she said if I ever needed anything at all to call her and even if it was late at night. SO..unexpectidly I had to do that one night and sent her a message at midnight. The next day she sent a message back saying that it was too late and I woke her up. I felt hurt because of her previous statement...so I told her I would never talk to her again because I felt like a burden. Well, then a few weeks passed and school was over. I felt bad for telling her I didnt want to talk to her again(even though I was hurt because she totally contradicted herself) and I emailed her and apologized. She wont except my calls either. So now I am obviously done with the "friendship" but I am hurt because of my apology that was never accepted...how can someone just cut someone off like that? She was the one who "initiated" all of the invites to her house, help, etc. and then shut me down. What the heck happened?? So bad that she would NEVER even reply to my apology...what will happen in the future? I will never get to talk to a person I really looked up to again and I am sad.</p>
<p>If she’s being childish like that, then maybe you’re better off without her.</p>
<p>■■■■■…</p>
<p>If not move on, an apology does not have to be accepted, no matter what the circumstances.</p>
<p>No, means No. The End.</p>
<p>What does ■■■■■ mean? And I agree no apology has to be accepted but she is acting childish.</p>
<p>You were also acting childish. Be mature and move on.</p>
<p>…Why is a female in her early 30s posting to a bunch of 19-20 year olds on a forum about college life?</p>
<p>I don’t call ■■■■■, but I think you’re lost. Lol. I think this is kind of ridiculous, personally. I guess it’s sort of sad it happened, but just don’t worry about it. I don’t know what to tell you, but I do know you probably won’t get any good responses here. Just deal, I guess.</p>