I need some advice

<p>So i'm having this odd problem with this really close friend of mine. We've known each other for 3 years and we hang out a lot, but things have gotten a bit strange. If i ever propose a hang out, she always comes up with a reason to not come. So whenever we hang out, its on her terms. For example, we get lunch a few times each week and its mostly her who calls/texts about it. If i ever propose lunch, or dinner or anything else, she seems to have some reason as to why she can't come. </p>

<p>On top of that, she calls me for favors a LOT. And i'm generally bad at saying no to her, so i end up doing them. For example, sometimes she wont be able to find a parking spot on the street, so i'll let her park in my garage and then drive her home. Or sometimes i'll give her rides and help her with other things. I would feel like shes using me, but shes the one who generally proposes that we hang out and if she ever senses that i'm annoyed with her, she goes out of her way to make sure i'm not and reel me back in. I don't know what to make of this whole situation. Our friendship is totally platonic btw.</p>

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<p>Is it clear that these actions are sincere?</p>

<p>It seems like they are. Like one time i was mad at her over something she did at a party(i didnt even tell her i was mad, i just didnt speak to her unless absolutely necessary at the party)…and the next day she called to apologize and whatnot. But i dunno, maybe thats not sincere.</p>

<p>I just thought of one more thing. Whenever we hang out in groups, she doesn’t really carry conversations with me…but she gets really bossy and controlling. I don’t know what to do, this situation is really bugging me. Please help me!</p>

<p>Wow that doesn’t seem very fun…
It almost seems like she’s got you on a leash, as silly as it sounds. </p>

<p>You should still be friends with this person but if they are always turning you down and using you for favors (no matter how nice they are) then you should pull back.
Maybe you should confront her about it, if you haven’t already.
-Amberelle</p>