<p>I have cried every day since I have gotten to campus 2 weeks ago because I just do not like it. I know that what I am feeling is a lot of homesickness, but I also have this gut feeling that I chose the wrong school. I go to a small school in the south and I am from Chicago. I am not like a majority of the people here, I am struggling to find people I can relate with. Also, the party scene here sucks and I was hoping for more than I am getting. The overall culture of the school just doesnt seem right to me. I am not happy here and really want to transfer. Is this just me being homesick? </p>
<p>Do you want to withdraw right now and go home? That is an option. If you are a freshman, and you have the grades and test scores that will qualify you for good financial aid, withdrawing while you can still be considered a freshman applicant for another place might be your best option.</p>
<p>If you aren’t a freshman, or the withdraw date has passed, or whatever, then you need to find a way to pull yourself together and get good grades this fall so you have something worth transferring with. Walk yourself into the student health center and ask for an immediate appointment with a counselor who can help you sort out your mental health situation. They have lots of experience with sad/lonely/confused/homesick students, and they will be able to help you get through this experience.</p>
<p>Wishing you all the best!</p>