I’m asking because I’ve never lived on my own away from my immediate family and I’m in the second semester of senior year.
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I would suggest to not have the goal of your roommate being your best friend. If they turn out to be, then great. if not, then just having a reasonable roommate is also pretty good.
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Second, early on go over items like on this roommate contract: https://www.etown.edu/offices/residence-life/current-students/Roommate%20Agreement.pdf
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If you really think your roommate is unreasonable, talk to your RA. That is what they are there for.
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Keep in mind that both you and your roommate pay for the room. Obvious right?
The implications are: Your roommate can stay in the room all the time and that is their right even though it may be annoying . Also it is your/your roommates right not to have people of the opposite sex stay over. -
All other freshman are going through this too.