Or maybe she has a friend…you could double date. Takes pressure off you in a group setting. Definitely forget the FB stuff. That makes a shy person more shy because it’s way too easy to not actually speak to one another.
So, I was looking for further advice on getting over this crush/infatuation. Like I haven’t talked to her and limit my interactions but when I see her, I still feel these ‘feelings’ or whatever. How can I get over this?
Pursue other girls.
In all likelihood even that will not stop the current feelings you have and that’s okay. You can still enjoy seeing and interacting with her with the understanding nothing romantic will happen. It’s normal, but trust me, at some point you will find other girls that make you feel that way.
Ok, I hope this doesn’t sound weird or anything but when I see her, I can’t help but think how good she looks and then I’ll feel down or something because I can’t get to know her. So any more tips to get over this more quickly
Is this the first girl you’ve had a crush on?
Not sure there’s anything more that we can tell you. You just have to move on. Try to avoid her as much as possible.
WIll do. Also, sorry for all the wangsting if it got to that point
Just understand that there are so many girls that can make you feel the same way and go find one.
You can start by saying “Hi.”
Just be yourself, and also girls love men with sense of humor.
I am on the spectrum (aka autistic), so I have a hard time knowing what to do when I have a girl in my class that I like. I don’t really have any advice, but I just wanted to let you know that I know where you are coming from. The other hard part is that I typically end up finding out later that they already have a boyfriend. I haven’t dated anyone since high school, and I am currently 23, so I have been single for five years now. I also think it sucks that I’m 23 and still in college but that’s another topic.