Talking to a girl in my class?

Okay so I am in a class with this girl I sit next to (well, not next to but there is somebody between us). She is pretty cute and I wanna talk to her and get to know her more. Like I don’t want to just go up to her and be like “I wanna go out with you.” I clearly want to talk to her, get to know a bit about her, and see how our conversation is.

What I was “planning” on doing was that I was just gonna walk into class and tell her something like “Hey do you mind if I sit here.” Just be direct about it, and not come up with anything unique or something. After that I would just introduce myself and talk to her a bit before class started. Then once class ends I’d just walk out with her. The last time we saw each other, she handed me the attendance sheet and she looked at me and then I looked back. She looked at me for a bit, then like 2-3 minutes later she left the classroom. I don’t know if that means anything (at first I thought I creeped her out). When he looked at each other I was just like “Thanks,” and grinned at her. So anyway, she knows I exist at least.

I know, many people are against going up to a girl just because she is cute. While I do think she is, I do want to talk to her and see if she is somebody I could get along with before making a move such as getting her number or ask her for coffee. What do you girls think of this? Is this the right/appropriate way of doing it? Any advice on this would help a ton!

I think you should just go for it and be yourself. If you don’t you might regret never giving it a shot. And the worst thing that could happen is that she says no and if that happens, it happens. Just think of her as a normal human being, because that’s what she is. Talk to her like you would to anyone else.

@Tookme10mins I appreciate your insight. That’s why I hope me asking to sit with her would make it easier for the both of us.

@welchie98 Yeah, I think so too! :slight_smile:

I concur with Tookme10mins. I hope everything works out for you.

Let us know how it goes!

Find a reason to get her number/Snapchat. Suggest forming a study group or hanging out outside of the classroom.