How do I know if a girl is interested in me?

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Here is the system I use:</p>

<p>Do you like her? --> Yes. --> She is not interested.</p>

<p>It seems to work for me.

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poor boy....</p>

<p>maybe Aristotle would like us to translate Dead Sea Scrolls next?</p>

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she talks to you just a little bit (not a lot, but not like none), and she stares at you.

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Ha, ha... that's so true.
Guys, if a girl talks to you a lot, she probably doesn't like you. When I saw the guy that I used to like ahead of me in the hall, I would start walking slowly so that I wouldn't have to talk to him (of course, he would start walking slowly, too, so that I would catch up to him... it was an interesting relationship. Ha, ha).</p>

<p>LOL, yeah that might be just as tough.</p>

<p>I'd agree though that if a girl is really chill around you and you around her that'd mean that both accept it as a just friends relationship. </p>

<p>Also, I'd agree that bringing in friends is not a bad thing. Friends, guys or girls, are almost always happy to see a relationship get started. Word'll get to her sooner or later. But you really need to ask her yourself.</p>

<p>"Guys, if a girl talks to you a lot, she probably doesn't like you. When I saw the guy that I used to like ahead of me in the hall, I would start walking slowly so that I wouldn't have to talk to him (of course, he would start walking slowly, too, so that I would catch up to him... it was an interesting relationship. Ha, ha)."</p>

<p>I completely agree from experience.</p>

<p>The only error proof way is to take a flower and then for each petal you pluck you alternate between the two phrases "She loves me" and "She loves me not"
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The last petal remaining is the answer. Pfft, and to think people tried to give you any advice other than this ~_~</p>

<p>I say talk to her more, watch her for certain body language, I suggest googling body language (although some of it may be crap, there are some good guides).</p>

<p>Otherwise, just ask her, don't regret not asking.</p>

<p>Even if she says no, she'll still be flattered that you asked. If she's any kind of decent person she's not going to be mean or rude about it! So go for it! If you don't try you'll never know (believe me, we girls are hard to read)</p>

<p>Another thing: hair.</p>

<p>If she starts fiddling her hair whenever she's around you, it's a good sign.</p>

<p>she will have a seizure</p>

<p>Just read this and I swear you will never have to ask anyone about this issue.</p>

<p>CUTE LOVE STORY- A BOY HAD CANCER AND HE HAD ONE MONTH TO LIVE. HE LIKED A GIRL WORKING IN A CD SHOP VERY MUCH. BUT HE DID NOT TELL HER ABOUT HIS LoVe. EVERYDAY HE WENT TO THE CD SHOP AND BOUGHT A CD ONLY TO TALK TO HER. AFTER A MONTH HE DIED. WHEN THE GIRL WENT HIS HOME AND ASKED ABOUT HIM, HIS MOM TOLD THAT HE DIED AND TOOK HER TO HIS ROOM..................................... SHE SAW ALL THE CD'S UNOPENED ............... THE GIRL CRIED N CRIED N FINALLY DIED. YOU KNOW Y SHE CRIED? COZ SHE HAD KEPT HER OWN LUV LETTERS INSIDE THE CD PACKS. SHE ALSO LUVED HIM............. moral of the story: if u love someone......say to him directly don't wait for the destiny to play the role </p>

<p>Take some action, dude, though I still couldn't :(</p>

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she will have a seizure

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<p>I hope not.</p>

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CUTE LOVE STORY- A BOY HAD CANCER AND HE HAD ONE MONTH TO LIVE. HE LIKED A GIRL WORKING IN A CD SHOP VERY MUCH. BUT HE DID NOT TELL HER ABOUT HIS LoVe. EVERYDAY HE WENT TO THE CD SHOP AND BOUGHT A CD ONLY TO TALK TO HER. AFTER A MONTH HE DIED. WHEN THE GIRL WENT HIS HOME AND ASKED ABOUT HIM, HIS MOM TOLD THAT HE DIED AND TOOK HER TO HIS ROOM..................................... SHE SAW ALL THE CD'S UNOPENED ............... THE GIRL CRIED N CRIED N FINALLY DIED. YOU KNOW Y SHE CRIED? COZ SHE HAD KEPT HER OWN LUV LETTERS INSIDE THE CD PACKS. SHE ALSO LUVED HIM............. moral of the story: if u love someone......say to him directly don't wait for the destiny to play the role

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<p>Is that even true?</p>

<p>^ I think so. There are 6 billion people on this world and there must have been a situation like this according to probability. Lol</p>

<p>Hey, dude, keep us up-to-date!</p>

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Hey, dude, keep us up-to-date!

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<p>So, I haven't asked her yet, but we've been talking more, and a little of [url=<a href="http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/college-life/482371-what-does-mean.html%5Dthis%5B/url"&gt;http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/college-life/482371-what-does-mean.html]this[/url&lt;/a&gt;] has been going on as well. The prom's in a while, so I have some time.</p>

<p>If I get into Harvard or Princeton on Monday, I'll probably not only be more confident but also seem more attractive. Maybe I'll ask her if I do. ;)</p>

<p>gl bra!!!!</p>

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If I get into Harvard or Princeton on Monday, I'll probably not only be more confident but also seem more attractive. Maybe I'll ask her if I do.

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<p>Nice. I'd be in dreamland if both would come true, but alas for me that shall never happen. Best of luck to you. Keep us updated!</p>

<p>i tried talking to this girl, but i screwed up. like 2 weeks later, she was talking to this kid at my lunch table; i just acted natural (i blow at small talk), and who knows, maybe it might progress beyond discussions. my "in" to the entire situation was that she was sitting alone at a lunch table and, after i grew some b@lls, i asked her to come sit with me. i have no idea if this helped, i just felt like telling my story. heh.</p>

<p>the best way is to ask her to hang out over the weekend or something. if she says she can't, shes busy it means shes not interested. if she says yeah sure she's interested.</p>