<p>There's this girl that I REALLY LIKE and I've pretty much fallen for her. I've been hanging out with her every now and then and I think that she's sending me very MIXED SIGNALS. I'm really unsure as to whether or not she feels the same way about me. </p>
<p>Basically, what I wanna do is tell her how I feel about her and tell her that I like her as more than a friend and then ask how she feels about that. Is that normal? Is it OK to ask her how she feels about that?</p>
<p>One other thing is that I don't see her too often, so I was wondering how to tell her. I really want to do this in person, so should I just wait until I hang out with her again or should I just text her to meet up really quickly and then tell her there?</p>
<p>Let me know what you guys think of this. And let me know if there's other alternate things I should do instead.</p>
<p>Sounds like me and a girl here… not good at this stuff either. My advice:</p>
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<li><p>Start a texting conversation… if she’s giving 1 word answers, or not showing interest, wait until she sees you in person before talking again. </p></li>
<li><p>If she seems interested, find out what she likes to do and try to learn a bit more about her. </p></li>
<li><p>I’m sort of at stage 3, but I’m trying to find reasons to talk to her more and more often and she seems to initiate conversations a lot. (I think Ive been friendzoned though, but I plan on asking her out finally this week… been wanting to for a few months)</p></li>
<li><p>After you get to know her more and find out what she likes, tell her that you’re doing X and ask if she would like to come with… Leave it as an open time. (I’m going to the gym/mall or whatever she’s into sometime on Thursday or Friday, do you want to come with?) </p></li>
<li><p>THat’s technically not a date so when you’re there try to talk to her a lot and tell her that you had a really good time with her and then maybe try to not talk to her for a few days and see if she texts you at all. If she doesn’t within 2-3 days, send her a message and start a conversation. </p></li>
<li><p>Try to ask a lot of questions and keep the conversation going.</p></li>
<li><p>Ask her where she is, and if you could meet with her to ask her something really important… </p></li>
<li><p>Tell her that you’ve spent a lot of time thinking about her and that you’ve realized she’s a really cool girl and that you really like her and then ask her out.</p></li>
<li><p>don’t overreact lol</p></li>
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<p>I’m sort of always hovering between stage 3 and 4 because I’ve asked her to go to the gym/grab lunch and she always has some sort of valid reason (Just ate or already went for a run and she’s asked me to join her friends…) The good news for me is that we’re in the same class this semester and we live next door so thres a good chance we’ll walk to that class together and I hope to maybe build a relationship and find time to ask her to hang out.</p>