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<p>I am still searching my soul for this question as a rising senior. I don't know about the 9 year committment and the hard work. I have many lazy bones in my body. This is for all: prospectives, midship(wo)men, and alumni. I am also considering NC state, UNC-Ch and Duke.
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<p>I am answering without having first read the replies above, so please forgive me if I repeat any points.</p>
<p>You say you are searching your soul. Well, that's the answer to your question. If it provides any help, let me offer you some questions I think you need to ask yourself and, more importantly, ANSWER HONESTLY before you make any decisions.</p>
<p>1) What do you really want to be in life? Doctor, Lawyer, Engineer, Military Officer, Teacher? It is a surprisingly difficult question because even once you've answered it for "sure" it can change.</p>
<p>2) Once you answer question #1, what do you think is the best way to achieve that goal? This question requires you to look up facts and figures as well as search yourself. I will use the time-honored example of wanting to be a military doctor. Yes, you can go to USxA and become a doctor, but it is exceedingly difficult. You may be better off going ROTC, or else becoming a doctor first and then signing up through OIS. Many paths, each with pros and cons, and you can only walk one.</p>
<p>3) Concerning the military. Are you prepared to give a good number of your "prime" years to the Service? It means less-than-market pay, long hours (days, weeks, months) away from home, sub-par living conditions, and the chance of getting killed. OTOH, it provides leadership experience at an age unheard of in the civilian world, experiences you won't find anywhere else, and a sense of belonging to a group that must be experienced in order to be appreciated.</p>
<p>4) As to whether to attend USxA or ROTC, that requires answering questions similar to those above. Are you prepared to go through a seemingly pointless Plebe Year when you could instead be waking up next to the warm body of your SO every morning, skip class with few repercussions, party every night, call home whenever you want, and have your summers off, or are you willing to sacrifice and put up with a metric assload of crap? The payoff, of course, is the pride and comraderie that comes with the ring you find at the bottom of that pile once you're done slinging it all...</p>
<p>This is what comes to mind up front. You have much thinking to do, and don't let anyone make you think they have THE answer. The military is not for everyone (not yet, anyway). The Service Academies most DEFINITELY are not for everyone. The question is, are they for YOU? Only YOU can answer that. What we old broken-down alumni and the current generation of mids/cadets and their parents can do is give you the answers and information you need to make the final decision, and there really isn't a right or wrong one.</p>
<p>Good luck, God bless, and shoot me an IM if you want to.</p>
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