<p>Seriously nut up and say “Would you like to go out for X sometime”</p>
<p>You have balls.</p>
<p>Use them.</p>
<p>Seriously bro, listen to TheYank.</p>
<p>If you don’t have enough balls to ask her out in person, then you’re not mature/man enough for a relationship.</p>
<p><a href=“http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/high-school-life/478302-how-do-i-know-if-girl-interested-me.html[/url]”>http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/high-school-life/478302-how-do-i-know-if-girl-interested-me.html</a> - check here also.</p>
<p>Definitely do NOT do it through chat or any form of non-face-to-face communication. First of all it shows that you are not confident to tell her in person (whether you really are or not), and secondly, even if she does like you, it’ll be weird for you two to get together for real. Just my personal experience…</p>
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This, and you win points for not being so self conscious and shy.</p>
<p>In the Jason steve thread, the link to the article dies</p>
<p>Write her a poem, like nothing4me!</p>
<p>OMG I REMEMBER THAT THREAD</p>
<p>except Karver’s was better</p>
<p><a href=“http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/high-school-life/779366-please-dont-laugh.html[/url]”>http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/high-school-life/779366-please-dont-laugh.html</a></p>
<p>Don’t tell her. Flirt with her. But make sure the person she broke up with isn’t one of your bros. Otherwise that would cause an awkward situation.</p>
<p>Nothing’s was more suitable for this occasion, because he actually gave it to the girl. Karver wrote it out though, so his is lulzyer.</p>
<p>“I really like you” is not how you tell a girl you like her. You don’t need to outright tell her you like her, but just talk to her about what you admire about her. She’ll get the idea.</p>
<p>Just ask her to go dinner/movie sometime later that week in person.</p>
<p>None of this chat business (coward) or “I like you” crap (pathetic)</p>
<p>As TheYank and The Hairy Lemon said, “Grow a pair”</p>
<p>^ & ^^</p>
<p>You guys act like “I like you” is taboo. It might be a good first step for a guy like him, you know?</p>
<p>You need to approach her in a way that is attractive. Don’t go on AIM and tell her “Ummm I sorta like you alot.” She won’t know what to say back, and she’d consider it weird that you had to tell her that online.</p>
<p>My advice? The next time you see her in person, smile and say hi, and then ask her to hang out with you. Not the third time you see her again, not the second time, but the first time. There is no “perfect time” to do this </p>
<p>Choose anything that would let you guys be alone. If she really likes you, she’ll either go with you or propose an alternative time(if she’s busy for when you asked). Even if she doesn’t like you, she might still “try you out” to see what it will be like.</p>
<p>Worst case scenario? She gets nervous and says no. Girls do things in a roundabout way, so if she says she’s busy, propose an alternative. If she’s still “busy” then it’s really a no. It is unlikely she will directly tell you no, she will try to hint at it.</p>
<p>If you’re like a jock (stereotypes, I know), “I like you” would work. If you’re a bit more shy, help her through her breakup and flirt with her at the same time. The idea of you two together will start to grow on her and you probably don’t need to say anything to get her.</p>
<p>Hi guys,
so after the day she broke up, a lot changed: She’s commented on my status, and chat with me, a lot. I usually initiate the conversation, though. In school I would hug her, touching her cheeks. In of the classes, she moved her seat to across me so our eyes would meet. In other classes too, our eyes would meet frequently. i would look at her like before, but now she looked back a lot more, and smile, and does hand gestures a lot more frequently like 5->6 times in a class. Today, when she borrowed stuff from me, she stood at my table, and joked that I was being absent minded in class.
Uhm, I guess, bottom line is, she looks at me more frequently, smiles more, and talks more with me.</p>
<p>But:
She asked me to lunch on yesterday. I said yes, but was kept in a club meeting for the whole lunch time. So I asked her to grab a lunch together the next day. But then she had homework, so she stayed in class doing it.
So I asked her to hang out this weekend; she say, let’s see, because she has volunteering and homework and say "we would hang out soon for sure. " I know for a fact because she’s busy and a good student. But, how do I ask her out then?</p>
<p>I still recommend that you use the ‘Write a nerdy poem’ method.</p>
<p>It’s obvious that she likes you (at least on some level) if she’s making plans with you on more than one occasion, despite the fact they aren’t working out. So, just find a day when you’re both not busy. A break of some kind? MLK Day is coming up, no?</p>
<p>alrightttt dawg. here’s what you do:
- talk to her. a lot. text, call (if you’re up to it), whatever you can to keep in consistent, but not constant, contact with her. if you talk three days in a row, take a few off.
- make her want you. be a little distant every once in a while–not so much that she thinks you’re weird, but enough that she finds you mysterious.
- talk to her friends.
- after a while, ask her if she wants to hang over the weekend. DO NOT, i repeat, DO NOT ask her on a date: don’t use the word "date, and don’t use the phrase “go out.” make it seem like it’s just two friends chilling for a sec.
- when you’re hanging out (if she says yes, which, since you seem like a nice kid, she should), make your move then and tell her how you feel.</p>
<p>simple! good luck, my man.</p>