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So true…</p>
<p>I agree completely Cloudycloud.</p>
<p>People like to say that you shouldn’t get with a different girl to get over your old one, but I know it worked perfectly for me when I needed it.</p>
<p>When girls don’t like us (boys) back, our natural instinct is to put them on a pedestal above everyone else, when in reality, you could (probably) do better.</p>
<p>Finding others is a crucial way to lower them back to reality, so you can stop idealizing them and get over it.</p>
<p>Seahawks, I honestly don’t think she likes him. But since I don’t know the girl, I could be wrong and she is just being very catty. If that is the case, ignore her and flirt around.</p>
<p>I have had girls who were crazy for me and the only reason I kept them around was because it was an awesome feeling. Even though I didn’t like them, the minute they stopped showing me attention, I wanted them to do it again. A few times I even started liking them. That is what Kigcat needs to do. Stop showing this girl that he cares so much, because to be quite honest, she isn’t showing that she cares so much. So why should he? </p>
<p>Waterboy</p>
<p>See, I was like that for awhile. Every pretty girl I met, she would instantly get put on a very high pedestal. I saw it in all the movies and it always worked for them, so I figured it would work out for me. Nope, it never did. At least not as much as I would of hoped.</p>
<p>What I do now is I approach every girl just like I approach every guy; as an equal. Us guys shouldn’t put girls on a pedestal. Why should we? Because they are pretty? Because they are funny? Because we want them to like us? What have they done to deserve such treatment? </p>
<p>Some guys are worse than others. Its quite sad really. Us guys will almost be a girl’s serf if it meant they would like us. It shouldn’t be that way. Women truly don’t know how much power than have over us.</p>
<p>Now, I am not saying that we shouldn’t be nice to women. We should and being a gentleman should your number one priority when approaching a women. But do NOT put her on a pedestal and do NOT allow a girl’s treatment towards you make or break your day. Especially if you aren’t dating her. </p>
<p>Women are truly a gift from god, but under the right circumstances they can be a worker for the devil.</p>
<p>/rant</p>
<p>/ agree with previous.</p>
<p>I think the problem I have is sometimes defining myself too much through girls…
but then I came to think about it… what else would come in front of girls lmao…</p>
<p>school? not even close…
sports? ehh not really…
friends? i have plenty and they’re the best but that doesnt change anything…
money? thats just to get the girls … </p>
<p>back to square one…girls win.</p>
<p>thats my reasoning for thinking way too much about girls.
unfortunately it sucks haha.</p>
<p>^^QFT.</p>
<p>True ****.</p>
<p>Speak the truth son.</p>
<p>email her this thread. she’ll appreciate how much you want her and think about her… or just think you’re a creep.</p>
<p>hahha no candless, it’d be creepy.
Well, I know you guys said I should move on. I think I should. But at the same time, I keep thinking about her. Like I keep fantasizing about us… it’s disrupting my study schedule… like I think I needa stop, but I can’t</p>
<p>Do what guys do best, get other girls.</p>
<p>Same **** happened to me.</p>
<p>I feel your pain. Five times, it has happened to me.</p>
<p>I dunno, but to me it sounds like she was leading you on for fun, and now has most definitely friend-zoned you. But I dunno, that’s just me.</p>
<p>Sounds like she was just messing with you. Girls tease guys to get attention and to feel better about themselves. Yup, the world is cruel. Start being a jerk to her. Girls have taught me over time that I’ll be rewarded for being an unbearably cocky tool, haha they are so dumb they ruin nice guys.</p>
<p>bro you tell her your feelings and likely one of two things will happen:
-she’ll play the “let’s just be friends” card, which yeah is disappointing but you’ll get over it in a couple hours or days and then you can go back to courting other girls again.
-she’ll say she has feelings back for you, and although in my experience you still might not become boyfriend/girlfriend at that point, you’ll probably be in a better place. </p>
<p>So it’s a win-win. Awkward? Yeah probably. But eh whatever.</p>
<p>Hi guys,
so today I asked her to go buy the ticket to the school’s festival with me, to which she agreed. She asked me to come with her to her car for the money, and I said no, I can buy for both and you can pay me later. But she insisted, so we went. However, I stopped in the middle of the road because the ticket booth was right there, saying “I can buy for both, you can repay me later.” She relented. And that was my most regeted thing of the day. Had I come with her to her car, I could have come clean…</p>
<p>So I decided, tomorrow will be the day. We have the period before lunch together. I think I will ask her if she has five minutes, and ask to talk in private. Then in privacy, I’ll confess my feeling.
But what will I say? If she rejects me, will her friends know? Will I be considered a loser at school?</p>
<p>you’re acting like a huge loser. you don’t need to profess your love for her. you just need to keep hanging out with her, get flirtier, and then eventually hook up with her. it just doesn’t make sense to confess to having such strong feelings for a girl that you’ve never even kissed.</p>
<p>Email her this thread… it’d be romantic… somewhat</p>
<p>^lol no, that would be a terrible idea.</p>
<p>Just be chill about it and it becomes a lot easier.</p>
<p>Dude, don’t confess your love to her. You are setting yourself up for the ultimate heartache if she doesn’t return the feeling, plus your going to look really weak. It hurts to read what you’re planning to do.</p>
<p>^QFT.</p>
<p>Don’t put her on a pedestal.</p>
<p>Girls manipulate that.</p>
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Yeah this. Even if she doesn’t find it romantic, it would provide lols for the rest of us.</p>
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<p>No.</p>
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<p>Yes.</p>
<p>Find a mutual interest and go do that with her. Whether that be running, studying, partying, or anything else just go hang out with her and ask her out in the middle but more towards the end of the time that you are hanging out.</p>