<p>Not everything is a signal. She might’ve ignored your call because she was busy; she might’ve liked your song because she actually liked the song (shocker); she might be making conversation to make conversation.</p>
<p>You’re never gonna know how she feels unless you make a move.</p>
<p>go for it. Trust me, I apparently sent this guy mixed signals for lie a year and was completely unaware he liked me. so I totes agree with ^^</p>
<p>@Francais: she knows I was calling. She told me she doesn’t want to talk on the phone. This is untrue because she receives phone call from her friends too, and if she likes me, then she would probably have picked that up. I know she did reject the call because she texted me back, saying “I told you no phone call xD” and asked for facebook chat instead. Idk abt the song, but it is kinda awkward she clicked like, and posted on my wall, like she initiated conversation with me because I’m now not the one who initiate it anymore. </p>
<p>@Littledot: so did you or did you know like this guy? you agree with what? what do you think I should do? wait for her to make moves? because I asked her several times before that which she either made excuse, or did not carry out.</p>
<p>kingcat, maybe she didn’t want to talk to YOU on the phone, and that’s not in a bad way. Maybe she felt you were gonna ask her something, and she wanted to hear it in person. Right now it seems that she likes you, so I would def go for it and just ask her if she wants to go out somewhere or something, and then bring up the concept of being together when you’re on the date (and not before or after).</p>
<p>Okay, you asked her out and she said, " when we have time."</p>
<p>She is either sending you mixed signals or trying to let you down easily.</p>
<p>In my honest opinion, I don’t think she likes you. All I needed to hear was “when we have time”. Now, I am a boy and I know for a fact that if a girl likes you, she will ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALLLLLWWWAAAYYYSSS make time for you. If one time is bad, she will at the very least suggest another time. But hey, I could be wrong and she could be really busy. I highly doubt it though.</p>
<p>I also believe - no offense - that you are reading too much into every single motion she makes. Just because she “liked” your song, doesn’t mean she likes you. Just because she wrote on your wall, doesn’t mean she likes you. Also, if you know for a fact that she rejected your call, why would you believe she likes you? </p>
<p>Every guy has been in your spot man. Its a sad place and it will become more and more familiar as you grow older. But my friend, she is rejecting you. Time to move on.</p>
<p>oh cloudy. that was last friday.
but then she changed her attitude, by a lot, today</p>
<p>or she may like you, and sucks at that kind of stuff? That happened to me. This guy I liked asked me out several times and I didn’t know what to say. I ended up saying stuff like “Maybe later” or “I’ll get back to you”. I realized that I totally blew it and he ended up taking it as a rejection and moved on.</p>
<p>Ugh, people need to grow a pair and ask these sorts of things straight up. In my experience answers of “Yes” go not come with any mixed signals, and if the answer is no you move on. It is very simple…</p>
<p>^ yah but unfortunately girls tend not to answer things straight up. If they did, I’d have a few girlfriends right now instead of none because i never knew they were interested in me :/</p>
<p>Just happened to a friend of mine today… Got some cryptic answer.</p>
<p>Cryptic usually means no… Yes is usually just a yes</p>
<p>@MIT: what exactly?</p>
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<p>Honestly this is going to sound really *****y, but its extremely possible that she started doing this because she thought you were losing interest in her (by not talking to her) and doesn’t want you to stop liking her. However, she might not be interested in you. Girls (including myself, sorry guys) like to be loved, but don’t necessarily want to return that affection. You never want to be the girl who some guy likes for a while, and then he moves onto your friend or something. You always want to be the girl who everyone likes, and you maybe, only like one guy and all the other boys are jealous. A lot of girls feel this way at some point or another.</p>
<p>On the other hand, she might have felt like it was too awk to talk on the phone with you because she doesn’t know you well enough. </p>
<p>^^Sorry boys, I know girls can be total snobs, but its the way we are sometimes. :/</p>
<p>I feel somewhat hypocritical right now since I’d rather he be upfront when asking me out however if I were to refuse the date, I would give a wishy-washy answer unless he was a d*****bag</p>
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Haha or maybe she’s just awkward on the phone, I find it awkward to talk to most people on the phone.</p>
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Lol, me too. I mean, how can I over-analyze every little gesture or change in facial expression if I can’t see them?!</p>
<p>how to tell her?</p>
<p>ball up. we all need that advice once in a while, including me.</p>
<p>also: look up pick-up artist (pua) stuff. google it. its at the very least interesting</p>
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<p>True dat. Online is the best, though, because you get to assume their tone, and it’s always worse than you think it is XD. Oh, also, there’re emoticons to go by: key factors in my analysis.</p>
<p>Ugh, bored today so actually looking at the “High School Life” forum. </p>
<p>First, stop over analyzing every detail. It’s even stressing me out. I know it’s hard, but stop it! Second, given the maturity level, I’m not sure if she’s consciously sending you mixed signals. The “of course” at the end of her saying you can get together when you have time is ambiguous. Who knows if she is asking her friends for advice about you (and girls do more than guys) and they are telling her to not seem too into you. Which, by the way, is the opposite of what girls should do. Guys generally prefer girls being straight with them, while girls generally respond better to the whole, act interested, but not too interested deal (even if they don’t admit it or are conscious of it). From the guy’s end, the conventional wisdom is that if she isn’t acting interested, it means she isn’t and the best thing a guy can do is move on, not dwell on that girl. But again, this is high school so who knows?</p>
<p>I don’t know what’s she’s feeling, but as was stated above, since she’s not making time for you, that hints she doesn’t want to date you, at least not right away. Or it could all be due to stupid advice from her friends. Anyway, for now I suggest that since you are school mates, just talk to her naturally in circumstances where you normally would, but don’t set aside “special” time. See how those conversations go. If they are flirty, then ask to “hang out” or whatever and after a few of those types of things (if they go well), actually ask her out. </p>
<p>You’re on the cusp of friend-zone or boyfriend. I don’t know which, though I’m leaning towards friend zone.</p>
<p>IF, she does like you and is playing games with you, play them better.</p>
<p>Stop showing her attention and move on. Flirt with some other girls around her. Stop showing so much interest in her. That will make her want you and she may start show you affection. </p>
<p>You should, at the very least, look for another girl. Finding another girl is the fastest way to get over another one.</p>
<p>problem with not acting interested/ flirting with others is that if she doesn’t like you that much, it won’t make her want you more- she’ll just ignore you back…</p>