<p>This topic was brought up in my English class today....</p>
<p>So for girls mostly (im a guy), and guys, what would be your most ideal way to be asked to prom such that you would probably say yes?</p>
<p>Well, if I really liked the guy asking me to prom, I wouldn’t be too particular about the way he asked me- as long as it wasn’t something stupid, like over a text or through facebook.</p>
<p>If you think the girl’s a bit more on the fence about her opinion of you, then you’ve got to go with something a bit more elaborate.
Last year, a chorus group at my school went on a trip to New York. When they were at the lego store, a guy spelled out “Prom?” in legos and showed it to the girl he was asking. That was super adorable and not too cheesy.</p>
<p>Well, I’m a girl, and I would say yes to a guy if he showed that he was truly interested in me. (I’m going to assume that the person asking is interested in this person.) Just do something sweet and simple; I don’t think I would like anything too outrageous because then I’d feel forced to say yes, and those huge invitations are sometimes embarrassing…My advice would be to go straight up to the girl, maybe with a nice flower, give a compliment and explain that you’re interested, and then ask her, plain and simple.</p>
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<p>Well, one guy in my school took a girl up in a plane and showed her a field with thousands of red roses that spelled “prom?” Yeah. Crazy, right?</p>
<p>^ that’s too much. It’s just prom…ppl need to calm down lol</p>
<p>i think its usually agreed that guys are supposed to be the ones asking… but a girl can obviously throw some really really obvious hints with an emphasis on the “really really” cuz us guys may not always catch hints with only one really</p>
<p>Hey cortana–I’m your ACT pupil.</p>
<p>As a girl, I think the most important thing a guy can do is be frank. I despise ciphering in flirting because subtleties go over my head.</p>
<p>A few weeks/months before prom, establish a sound connection/friendship: actual conversations, a few inside jokes. Try steering conversations away from a mutual group of friends, so that you two have substantial conversation alone. This way, you’ll know whether you guys mesh. For all you know, she could be a terrible match.</p>
<p>And then, just ask! Do it in private to preclude any awkward moments.</p>
<p>I dunno, build her a cake or something.</p>
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<li>Find out from her friends if she is going with anyone. (MAKE SURE OF IT; DON’T ASK HER)</li>
<li>Don’t do it in a rushed/busy scenario. (changing classes etc.)</li>
<li>Ask her after 1-2 mins. of conversation about something. (Don’t just go up and blurt it out)</li>
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<p>Good luck lol.</p>
<p>I made a stir-fry dinner and her fortune cookie said “Will you go to prom with me?”</p>
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well i’m a girl and as for me… well, i don’t think a guy needs to be “truly interested in me” for us to go to prom together. as long as he did actually want to go with me (not some dare or last resort) i would be ok. i would just want someone pretty fun to be with, since it should be a fun and social night… not like it’ll be our engagement party or anything :)</p>
<p>but yeah… do it in private in person, make sure it’s not just “over and done with” and ask a girl who knows you (not just someone you’ve been stalking)… if not have a few convos beforehand.</p>
<p>If she likes you, she’ll go with you even if you don’t make a scene of asking her. Last year I got asked when my best guy friend (who I had a huge crush on) and I were talking in the parking lot after school. He just sorta blurted it out. I was so happy I skipped into musical rehearsal and started dancing and jumping up and down. I think people make it into too big of a production. Just ask. If she wants to go with you, she’ll say yes.</p>
<p>My boyfriend made me a video of him singing “I Don’t Wanna Miss a Thing” (song by my favorite band) and at the end said “I don’t wanna miss a thing…go to prom with me?”
He played it during Chemistry class. It was awesome, people laughed cuz he wasn’t good at singing, and we moved on. Prom was fun.
It shouldn’t ever be a big deal.</p>
<p>Tips:
Don’t ask her if she already has a date (this sentence applies both ways). Use your spy skills to find out another way; talk to friends etc. Then if you ask her, and it is genuinely sweet (go to her front door on a sunday with some friends and sing a song; easy) she won’t refuse. Unless she’s a bltch.</p>
<p>I know one guy who baked the girl a cake that said “Prom?” on it, haha(: Then again, if the person in question can tell you’re interested, do something simple, just ask, chances are he or she will say yes anyway(:</p>
<p>Why can’t I just walk up to a girl and say “Do you wanna go to prom wit Samonuh?”</p>
<p>bumppppppppp i like the fortune cookie idea!</p>
<p>I’m a girl and I agree. You can go simple or elaborate and as long as she’s a good friend and your nice about it. She’ll say yes.</p>
<p>What’s a good time to ask; like february? Don’t want to ask too early, that it will seem weird, or too late, that she’s already going with someone else.</p>