How to deal with college guys?/How do guys think?

<p>I was rephrasing what the OP said in the portion of text you quoted, not expressing any of my own thought. I don’t think that so-called ugly people are compatible for purely sexual relationships, personally. </p>

<p>I suppose if you’re desperate to get laid by anything that will have you then the so-called uglies would be good for you.</p>

<p>I think 75% of guys in college are like that. 24% don’t know how to talk to girls, and 1% are noble gentlemen who possess well rounded talents on top of true sincerity. :D</p>

<p>I’m guessing he actually did have genuine interest in you, and when you said you didn’t want a relationship he probably thought you’d be open to casual sex/friends with benefits/whatever you wanna call it.</p>

<p>I’m guessing you’re giving off signals of being emotionally interested in a person beyond just being their friend, and that leads them on. I’m also not sure why you randomly just said that you’re not interested in a relationship to him. Did the subject come up or what?</p>

<p>And you say you’re interested in dating but not relationships… uh what? Unless you constantly meet a streak of awful dates, eventually you’re gonna click with someone and then guess what… you’re gonna get emotionally invested in him and want to be in a relationship with him. Unless by dating you mean just hooking up with a different guy each week, in which case this guy probably was warranted in thinking you’re easy.</p>

<p>How is this an issue?</p>

<p>To the thread starter, chill. That fool was trying his luck, every guy does that in some way. Some cats are more subtle, we have that smooth flow, but others dont.</p>

<p>Note for ladies:</p>

<p>Any guy who is (a) not related to you by blood (b) or marriage and (c) is not gay will ultimately try and get some play. Anyone who denies that is fronting.</p>