<p>Oh goodness, cut the kid some slack. He’s not professing to be an expert, he’s here to LEARN (which he expressed very clearly), and how can anyone learn when they just get attacked whenever they make a mistake or ask a question someone else deems stupid? </p>
<p>OP, you seem like a great kid, and your English is fantastic by the way - you write more coherently than one of my friends who’s applying to an Ivy League school and her first language is English! As far as tips go:</p>
<p>•Get good grades. This is imperative. Without this, you’re kind of sunk. </p>
<p>•Take hard classes. I’m not sure what programs are in the Netherlands or how they break things down, but AP classes, honors classes, and IB are all key to being seriously considered. </p>
<p>•Do cool stuff. You mentioned you already have passions - that’s awesome. Push the envelope with whatever it is you’re passionate about. If you love the technical side of theater, don’t just do it at your school, try to get an internship or job, or anything with a local playhouse. If you love soccer, don’t just play on the school/club team. Volunteer on the weekends to coach younger kids, get a job as a referee or a scorekeeper. Don’t try to do it all tomorrow, but keep it in mind for the future. This kind of stuff shows initiative, and elite schools eat that up. </p>
<p>•Brainstorm for your essays. I bet a lot of people with disagree with me on this, but hear me out. At some point, something cool will happen to you, or you will have an insight, and you will forget it. I kept a running list of cool things that I thought could be potential essay topics for my freshman, sophomore and junior years, and it has helped me so much. For example, I do gymnastics, and one of the things I’ve learned from gymnastics (from the balance beam, specifically) is the importance of mind over matter. If you don’t believe you will fail, if failure does not even occur to you as something that will happen, that your only choice is to what degree you will succeed, then you tend to be a lot more successful. I ended up expanding on this idea for mine of Stanford supplemental essays. It wasn’t exactly what I had envisioned, but just having a lot of starting points makes everything a lot less daunting. </p>
<p>•Stay friendly with teachers and GCs. You should be nice to everyone, but these people are especially important. They will write a recommendation for you, they will be advocating for you throughout the process, it’s important that you be on good terms with them. You don’t have to buy them Christmas presents, but always be friendly and polite, participate in class, do your homework, all that good stuff. </p>
<p>•Standardized tests - Don’t wait until the last minute. Plan to take these tests your junior year. I know kids who are taking them as seniors, and they all say it is absolutely terrible. </p>
<p>•Have fun. Don’t lose your personality along the way. Seriously, just that alone will set you apart from the automatons out there. </p>