<p>hi, there's this guy that's been giving me looks, but hasn't ever come up to talk to me. I've been trying to return the glances. Do you think I should make the first move? How? Will it come off as desperate?</p>
<p>Wow. Just go up and talk to him, simple as that.</p>
<p>simple,
go up to him and say:
Hi, I'm ______. I couldn't help noticing that you noticed me. Do you want to get a cup of coffee/burger/whatever you want?</p>
<p>Just go up to the guy and talk to him casually, and see were it goes from there!! NOO you will not come off as looking desperate!!</p>
<p>no guy will think a girl is desperate/wierd if she comes up to him...and since he's been giving u "looks" then u already know he's interested..</p>
<p>Ew no don't go up to him. If he likes you he'll come talk to you and if not then he's a wuss. And I personally don't like wussy guys. Lol. But I guess if you're brave and not shy then you could randomly sit next to him or tell him you like his shoes or something. Hahaha my lameness always works.. well for me. "Looks" means nothing, maybe she had a piece of broccoli (sp) stuck in her teeth. Pft. I think that if he really is THAT interested, he will eventually come up to you.</p>
<p>"hey, i like you, so let's go out some time"
should work</p>
<p>Arijana is right, don't go up to him! Worst thing you could do. Maybe he is looking at you because he is interested but if he can't even come up to talk to you what does that tell you about him. If he doesn't come up to you soon or in a while then walk past him and while you guys are looking each other say "Hi" or something. Then make it flow from there.</p>
<p>Some of us are shy, we need a reason to do something like that. We cant JUST walk up and initiate conversation. Easier said than done...</p>
<p>He's sat across from me before, but was actually talking to other people. Maybe he is a loser... he looks at me everyday. Still, I can understand how some guys are shy and stuff. But I feel it's even harder for me to initiate conversation.</p>
<p>None of us guys said there was anything wrong with you talking to him, so go ahead and do it.</p>
<p>go ahead and talk to him, he won't think it's desperate</p>
<p>Just ask him:
"Hey, do you like Quantum Mechanics?"
Everything should fall in place from there ;)</p>
<p>^ lool</p>
<p>yeah that should do it!!!!</p>
<p>LMAO at ChaosTheory</p>
<p>Yeah, just go up to him. Be lame. Lameness makes us feel really comfortable. ;)</p>
<p>what's LMAO? is it: laughing my a$$ off. just a wild guess. is it close?</p>
<p>Yes, that is correct.</p>
<p>Hey cool! I got it right!</p>