<p>omg. this may sound really insane, but seriously--how do you flirt? i'm a clueless girl. i love this guy, but i don't know what to do about it! :confused:</p>
<p>Please don't use the word love lightly.</p>
<p>As for how to go about flirting, try to put yourself in a situation where you have to talk to him. Some suggestions:
- sit at his desk "by accident"
- bump into him
- ask to borrow a pen
- ask for the time</p>
<p>Simple stuff like that just to get yourself known. You don't want to come off too strong at first.</p>
<p>$0.02</p>
<p>I concur with Mosby, but also, a way to let him know that you like him is by suddle touches, exstending your hand to him, grazing by him. Stuff like that.</p>
<p>Good Luck</p>
<p>Jerod</p>
<p>haha...grazing...like a water buffalo or something.</p>
<p>i agree, especially with the whole, i love him thing--even though im sure you just off handedly said that, you should watch out for that. i never told my girlfriend that i loved her until after like a year and a half, she told me. it just doesnt mean anything if you toss it around.</p>
<p>just make your presence known, even if its in the most subtle...or...stupid...of ways, anything helps beacuse at least he'll know you're there. just try to stay confident, thats the msot important and attractive thing--dont act like a ditz</p>
<p>uhh you could accidentally drop something by him and bend over really far to pick it up. always a good way to catch a guys attention...fo sho =)</p>
<p>You mean the bend-and-snap!</p>
<p>haha thast it its funny and just might work</p>
<p>lmao. you sound like a friend i know. she likes a guy but doesnt know how to flirt. </p>
<p>ROFL about the grazing comment. :D</p>
<p>the key is to look good and have ur presence known.</p>
<p>Legally Blonde was an amazing movie.</p>
<p>Love will make you do nutty things, especially if it doesn't work out.</p>
<p>Flirting is really just talking. Once you get talking, it'll come out.</p>
<p>well said aim78.</p>
<p>trust me on this, ive had a girl do it to me. if you sit next to him in class (our desk positions made it ideal in my case), rub your foot against his leg. If he gets freaked out, act like you thought it was the desk. its hot. also, depending on your, um, physique, stretch upwards with a short shirt. this happened today to me (no kidding). this hot girl was facing me to copy something on the back board and she was wearing a sort of short polo shirt. She stretched up and back and her shirt went way up. I mean, i didn't see anything really wild, but you almost never see that much skin in class so it was really hot. not sure if it was meant for me (yeah right, im damn sexy) or not, but it made my morning.</p>
<p>well, just talk to the dude. What's he like? Maybe buy him a Hannukah present. Or Christmas. Or Kwanzah. Talk about him, ask him about himself and all. Tell him he will make a great male model/CEO one day. I just say really random stupid things to people. And if anyone says I'm crazy or weird I say "Look at this stuff upon my head!" (I'm a blonde). Just do so many stupid things until it gets to the point where the entire school knows you're in love with him.</p>
<p>Also! If you do do the bend and snap from Legally Blonde, DO NOT FART. You know it's going to happen to someone someday!</p>
<p>don't intentionally flirt. i see many girls who do that, or attempt to do that, and i just find it all idiotic. if you like a guy, start talking to him. if he likes you, you two are bound to end up flirting unintentionally, it'll just happen. if you want to make him like you... well, personally i wouldn't do that, but i guess others might, so can't help you there.</p>
<p>So many smart kids with flirting problems. Flirting is much easier than getting a 1600 on the SAT. I would trade my flirting skills for pure intelligence that people have on here any day.</p>
<p>Hahahaha, mediocretes!</p>
<p>With all this do something subtle advice, you may want to consider doing something bold and in your face.</p>
<p>This is on the assumption that he at least knows your name. "Hi, John. Do you want to go get some Starbucks with me after school?"</p>
<p>Look him straight in the eye and do not do that teehee thing that a lot of girls do. This in my opinion is very gutsy, but accomplishes a lot of goals. </p>
<p>1) Says indirectly, yet in a direct way, that "I like you and want to get to know you"
2) Gives you the opp to know if you like him, visa versa</p>
<p>This of course might be too forward and might "kill the romance" that vague flirtation entails, but just a thought you might want to consider.</p>
<p>haha listen to mediocrates.. sounds pimp you know how we roll mediocrates keep up the good work dude</p>
<p>Whoa, that is the WORST advice ever. Don't bump into him. You'll seem like a clumsy loser. Don't ask all those cliche stupid questions. Just say, "Hey baby, wanna wrestle?" He will be putty in your hands.</p>
<p>No but seriously, look at the stickers on his binder or comment about the band on his shirt. Don't seem like you are directly interested in him, just what he's interested in. Get it? Then you turn this kind of small talk into BIG talk, but maybe you'll have to deal with the small talk for a while before this BIG talk comes.</p>