i can't make up my mindddd

<p>so i was really set on applying ED to rice but now i'm not so sure :\ because i'm in CA, UCs are like 20k cheaper and my parents would rather have me go to UCLA or UCBerkeley cause they have better reps than Rice. On the other hand, if I don't apply early to Rice, I probably can't get in and if I don't get in UCLA or UCB either, then i'll have to go to UCSD :[ Also, Rice is in Texas and I've never been there or visited Rice and i'm afraid i'll feel really out of place because almost 50% of people at rice are from texas. And also, my rice perspective essay sucks right now. and my quarter grade sucks too. ok i know i'm rambling but i guess i need an opinion?</p>

<p>If you're not sure, you shouldn't apply ED. You probably will still have a decent shot if you apply RD.</p>

<p>DS had a great visit at Rice and loved it. As far as I'm concerned, it is simply the most amazing school I could possibly imagine for him. While I might have wanted him to apply early and reduce the stress and anxiety we're experiencing now, he cannot because I'm not willing to make a binding commitment without first reviewing a financial package.<br>
Since then, everyone my son knows (family, friends and teachers) has offered an opinion and his head is spinning from all the different recommendations. DS's guidance counselor holds steady in her assertion that it is best to wait until any and all acceptances/offers are on the table and then make informed decisions.
Personally, I wouldn't recommend applying early anywhere if you're not 100% sure you want to and can afford to attend the school. I know a few students now in colleges that had applied early. In each case, their families were willing and able to pay the full cost of attendance, the students had visited beforehand and had their hearts set on those schools.
Best of luck to you, whatever you decide!</p>

<p>Do not apply ED if you cannot make up your mind. Simply trying to get a little bit better chance to get accepted to a school that you and your parents are not committed at this point is of no value. If you are a good student your chance of getting accepted as a RD applicant will not be too far off from applying ED. In fact, you might be in a better position to get one of the many merit scholarships that Rice offer as a RD applicant than an ED applicant.</p>