<p>Since you go to an urban commuter school, i get the sense that alot of the students aren’t interested in pursuing an active campus social life - they have high school friends, work stuff going on. The best thing for you to do is to get involved with clubs and organizations. Don’t get hung up on individuals, and don’t have too many expectations for specific people. As you get involved with your classes, clubs, and work, you’ll feel much more settled socially and things will fall into place.</p>
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No it’s not.</p>
<p>But it’s only been 2 days and you’re upset? !!!
Also, in my experience, my best friendships (not faux friends) have been spontaneous. Just wait. If you don’t develop any legitimate friendship after 4 years, it’s probably not you, but them.</p>
<p>It’s been two days? Jeeze, chill out.</p>
<p>No it’s not.</p>
<p>Freaking out this bad over something that little is needy, people don’t like hanging out with needy worry warts who don’t have common sense to think other people are going through the same thing (and for posting!) Thinking that you’re extra special is not a good trait…</p>
<p>I’d say that the first 2 months are the hardest, socially speaking. After that, you get to meet new people. And you don’t even have to do anything special, it just happens. At least that is how it was for me. After about 3 months I was already hanging out with the same group of people almost every weekend.</p>
<p>You could also try to meet people who study at your college online, like on Facebook, MySpace. For example, I just joined this video chat site for students about 2 weeks ago, MatchVenue.com and I met a guy that is attending the same college as I am. I remember our first chats were all rants about the professors… I even met him once, he’s really nice.</p>
<p>Anyway, don’t worry. Just play it cool and it will take care of itself.</p>