<p>i don't really know at all if this belongs here in this section or on this site at all but i had to get it off my chest somehow. Im a sophomore in high school and basically i feel like my life sucks. (im not being a *****, yes i do know people have worse lives than i do) its like my social life is down in the dumps along with everything else. im not the best student. i do alright but not great. and now i'm starting to realize i've dug myself in a huge hole for college. but about my social life. it stinks. i basically haven't gone "out" in about two months. its like no one asks me to do things. and i don't get it because a year ago i was going out every weekend. and in my perspective i haven't changed so much that this would happen. i see everyone hanging out on facebook and meanwhile im at home watching tv and doing nothing. it annoys the hell out of me. and everytime i try to set something up with someone they either don't respond to me (i ask them over text) or in person they would say something like they're busy. to get things straight. it's not like im hated. i don't sit by myself at lunch or anything its just i dont have a social life out of school i feel and i dont know what to do about it... thanks.</p>
<p>“Do not let your happiness depend on something you may lose.” -C.S. Lewis</p>
<p>edit: in retrospect, my advice probably wasn’t that helpful to you. relax, culture yourself and take time to develop your character and your interests–people can’t help but be attracted to interesting people. “Be so good that they can’t ignore you,” says Steve Martin.</p>
<p>ask them in person</p>
<p>high school isn’t that important. if you don’t meet people you have a lot in common with, occupy yourself with other things such as reading (trust me it’ll give you an edge comes SAT), volunteering, etc. </p>
<p>Do more things and you’ll meet more people. GOOD LUCK! :D</p>
<p>kinda same story as me. lots of people partying on facebook, i really just dont give a s***, stay home watch tv, text, do homework, and stuff</p>
<p>I know exactly what you’re talking about. People would just stop talking to you randomly for no reason. Even though I have a solid group of friends, I can’t wait to be done with high school, it’s just so irritating! Just keep your chin up and focus on your school work until you’re done with high school. Most of the people you meet there just aren’t worth your time. I heard college is at least 100x times better, or at least I hope…</p>