<p>Today sucked. My mom was diagnosed with colon cancer a month ago and it's really gotten bad since then. She's about to start chemo next week so hopefully it will eventually get better. She is all I can think about. I go to school about a half hour from my house and today she, my dad, and my aunt dropped me off. My mom goes through periods of excruciating pain because her colon is off balance and it's putting pressure on her sciatic nerve. While we were about to leave the pain came on and my mom could barely walk to the car and almost couldn't get in. She is only 55 and this is all so sudden. She was in tears and pain and told me she loved me and told me to take advantage of this opportunity. </p>
<p>It is such a ****ty way to remember being dropped off at college. I am so depressed and I feel guilty because my mom is sick at home. She and my dad DON'T want me coming home because they think I am going to miss out and they don't want the cancer ruining my life. Well, how am I supposed to sit here and study/socialize while she's sick at home? I have no motivation to go out and meet people. I even skipped out on the convocation and carnival because i'm emotionally exhausted and I feel sick. I didn't know the dining hall would be closed tonight because of the carnival, so i'm currently sitting in my room alone hungry as can be. Not to mention it is literally 95 degrees in my room and I have a horrible headache.</p>
<p>My roommate was a no show until an hour ago. He seems normal but I walked back to the room from walking around and the door of our dorm was open and he was no where to be found. I have some friends here, but they are mostly girls and they are all going out tonight at older guy's houses and i'm not invited. People are going to come back from this carnival around 8 tonight and I don't know what to do. I just want to be alone and cry but I can't do that while in college. </p>
<p>I want to commute but it will make my mom feel worse than she currently does. I feel like I'm trapped and I hate it. I wasn't even excited for college before my mom's diagnosis. I don't even know what I want to do with my life. Someone please help me feel better</p>