<p>I made the mistake and I have taken just the fall semester off instead of the year, I am now at my college in spring semester 7 weeks in and no one is trying to befriend me!! I always try but everyone already seems to have their clique of friends and I get these death stares when my floor mates when I say I'm not going to a party who only come in my room to visit my roommates who make me feel like I don't exist and only acknowledge me when they want something from me! I hat feeling this way! Last night when they went out I cried until my heart hurt! They don't even care about me being alone or feeling lonely and my roommates make fun of me constantly I am just so tired please help I really don't know what to do. Never thought college would be like this I thought people would be more mature guess not</p>
<p>join a club?</p>
<p>Honestly, it is super important to be there in the fall of freshman year when everyone is making friends and it is easy. However, people also make friends who have th same interests, join clubs, student government, work on projects with them for those things…and clubs ALWAYS need people willing to put in the work.</p>
<p>stop being so emotional man its a cold world no ones gonna care about you being lonely, don’t try to hard to be f friends with people who you cant relate with. join a club that u like you’ll find people with similar interests. </p>
<p>Awww, that’s tough. Try joining several clubs, volunteering, or meeting people in your classes. You can always make friends, if not in the school, then venture outside and look for opportunities. Take a class on something that interests you (not necessarily academic, could be archery, photography… whatever floats your boat), join an intramural sport club, bake cookies and prop your dorm room open. I made tons of friends through my hobby and through volunteering. You just have to get out more and make an effort, you’ll be fine. If nothing else, wait for next fall, when all the freshman would be more than happy to have an older student as a friend.</p>
<p>Worry about your grades! You’ll be fine!</p>
<p>and are you sure it’s a death stare?</p>
<p>Your story upsets me as it does when my daughter tell us about not having friends and getting made fun of for wanted to study and get good grades instead of going out to party. While is good she wants to make her education valuable I would like her to lighten up a little and have fun at time. But its normal not to click with everyone and it may take till next year to find the right friends. I rec. smile be friendly and keep working hard as education is important for your future. New dorm next year, new classes may change things. </p>
<p>Have you ever heard of that Bowling For Soup song “High School Never Ends”? Yep, that’s it. </p>
<p>Freshman year is a toughie. Not only are you in a whole new environment, new burst of freedom, etc., you’re still going to be around some type of kids that make you feel like you’re in high school all over again. I know how you’re feeling and it’s terrible. It’s spring semester so you can’t be the only “new” kid around there. What I can recommend is possibly going to a counselor and helping you ease your transition better. But I’m also agreeing with the above as far as getting involved in something. Parties aren’t ALWAYS the way to go as far as building relationships. But I’m sure your campus has lots of events as far as meeting new people. There are also people in your classes you can talk to, as well as kids in your major. </p>
<p>Spring is almost over, kid. Then you have the summer and a fresh new start in the fall. So in the meantime as you try and figure a peace of yourself and your environment out, finals are coming up (depending on your state/school…if you’re in the south then yes…they are coming up). Try burying your head in your studies for the moment, taking a walk for a breather, etc…Ah, that’s a wonderful way to make friends as well now that I think about it. </p>
<p>I hope the rest of the semester is lovely to you. Also, please try not to stress. Cheers.</p>