<p>My "friend" (who has been very quiet about the whole thing) also had a lot more going on personality and character wise... this other girl really did few extracurrix, and didn't really put much into them. I think I know the scenario here: lacking any acquaintance with this girl, you're forumulating your own image based on my description, or lack thereof.</p>
<p>So, what does she look like? What kind of person are you imagining? Modest and demure about the redeeming qualities that make up for her low numbers? Sedately tucking a lock of dark hair over her ear while primly holding a bio book under her arm, outwardly humble, but a worthy fire burning within? I guess you don't know her, do you? Not your fault.</p>
<p>Are you imagining someone sitting in an AP class, day in and out, with a blank look on her face, and a bare desk, while the rest of the kids are hurriedly scratching notes and working for their grades? Are you imagining her in the corner fiddling on her laptop and cell phone while a few unfortunate schmos toil on a project to get her an A? You know what? Don't say you are.</p>
<p>I guess I've failed to clarify what really irks me. See, those of us who know her are maddest for this reason: not that she's lacking smarts, not that she's lacking good numbers, but that she has no attitude. She's a loafer in class and a showoff at the pep rallies. You'd have to know her. I'd love to just post a link to her myspace and bring up the obnoxious hip-hop music; the pics of her in these rehearsed little ostentatious Cosmopolitan Magazine poses; her friends and her with the Backstreet Boys on her birthday. I'd love to invite you to spend a day, a week, a year at my school. But I can't.</p>
<p>What I'm seeing from most of her defenders is a clear case of what I call "Ivy League Validation Syndrome." Columbia accepted her, so she must have some sort of virtue. Is this the case? Does everyone who gets accepted by an Ivy necessarily have some redeeming, validating characteristic? Is their admissions hook not only explainable, but always rightfully defendable along with their character, too? Are the Ivy Leagues the be-all-end-all of human worth?</p>
<p>You don't even know her. She's annoying. The situation is annoying. She hasn't taken school seriously, or her classes, and no, she's not smart. She's royalty, for lack of a better word. That's why she got in. I know. And if I don't, well... I certainly know better than you.</p>
<p>I'm not antagonizing those who get in with low numbers. I'm antagonizing those who get in with no attitude or work ethic. They exist, too.</p>
<p>I can accept it, but I won't defend it, and you're wasting your breath when you try to hypothesize about this young lady's redeeming qualities. Perhaps you could try to imagine--lacking that empirical data--that where I'm coming from might just be more than simple envy.</p>