<p>I never see him around, but he's constantly in my mind.</p>
<p>One crucial question: how can you tell if a guy is just super friendly or if there's something more?</p>
<p>thanks in advance... :)</p>
<p>If he likes you then you will know. Trust me on that one. If it has been quite a while and he hasn't made a move then he probably isn't in to you as much as you may think.</p>
<p>Maybe, adconard, maybe not. Some guys are shy, just as some girls are shy, and will not make a move without assurance that they won't be rejected or turned down. This could lead to interesting stalemate situations.</p>
<p>How can you tell if the guy likes you? You really can't. You can have a good idea, perhaps, but you can never really know, just as he can never really know that you really like him.</p>
<p>Often, it's hard if not impossible to distinguish between extreme friendliness and some romantic or sexual advance. You should try to see how he acts towards other women. This could be an indication of whether you are more specially treated or not. You could talk to him relatively straight forwardly about how you feel. I know, I know, a shocking concept, but it might lead to a quality relationship, or at least you knowing how he feels more than you do now. If you ask him something like "what do you want out of our relationship," you might freak him out, or get the answer you want, or don't want- it really depends on the guy.</p>
<p>some guys are just flirty </p>
<p>btw how do you make it clear to a girl that you're not interested without telling them? I'm too nice of a guy to tell a girl that. Like i want to stay friends and i dont want things to be weird.</p>
<p>Time to not be so nice all the time. Just flat out tell her. You need to let her know or you will be leading her on without you knowing it.</p>
<p>are you tkm256 or whatever?</p>
<p>You said that you never see him, try to see him. If you can get 15 minutes with this guy, alone, you'll know. The best part of this move is that he can take this as a sign of your interest if he's interested, but if he actually isn't, it will be interpreted as a friendly gesture. You can't lose. If he does flirt, return it, within your comfort level, but you must show some sign. If you laugh at what he says (or whatever your style is-however, I can tell you that guys like to feel funny) he will take that as a sign to advance.</p>
<p>If he's super friendly to you, but not to any other girls, then he definitely likes you. But if he treats all girls the same, then he probably doesn't. I'm pretty sure that's the best sign..</p>