<p>Ok, so just a general question for any guys out there (girls you're welcome to respond as well). How would you (guys) like to have a girl show/tell you how she feels about you? And another question, if you're (the guy) flirting with a girl and then ask out another girl which the first girl happens to know, does this mean anything, or are you guys just cruel in general (sorry no offence intended, just ranting here)? Any respons would help.</p>
<p>It means nothing, if you didn't make your feelings abundantly clear toward the guy, you lose out. You snooze you lose. I prefer females tell me exactly how it is going with them so I do not waste my time. Flirting is just like talking, some girls just naturally flirt and I generally ignore it because usually it leads nowhere. Next time just tell the guy for God's sake.</p>
<p>Girls think that they're giving huge signs to a guy but really it takes a lot for them to get it. spell it out.</p>
<p>filmxoxo17 hit the nail on the head. Guys are stupid. Tell us. I cannot read signals at all. (maybe if she is choking or something) It might be more a fear of rejection than a lack of not reading signals for a lot of guys.</p>
<p>well at least tell the guy you like him to some extent if he's flirting with you and you actually like him. if after you tell him you like him he goes and flirts, THEN he's cruel. but if you didn't make anything known in the first place, then what do you expect? do you want him to chase you like a dog?</p>
<p>imagine you, the girl, are flirting with a guy you like but he gives you no real sign he's seriously interested. then you see another guy you like so you flirt with the new guy instead, since the first seems to not be into you. this isn't wrong, right? </p>
<p>guy flirts with you. you say you like him. he flirts with someone else. CRUEL.</p>
<p>guy flirts with you. you say nothing. he flirts with someone else. NATURAL.</p>
<p>i'm a girl by the way. you can't expect the male species to know whats going through our, the females', mind. they're guys, remember that.</p>
<p>Ok, so I should make a sign hang it around my neck and parade around with it on campus. Is that pretty much the message that you're getting at (well not literally of course, but you should get the point)? So what if the fear of rejection comes in the way of actually telling the guy how you feel? Ok so what if we take the two questions completely seperate. What would you suggest then?</p>
<p>thanks coqui by the way. That was interesting. Maybe I'll change my objective when school starts again.</p>