<p>I moved in on Sunday, and I've yet to make an actual friend. I've had casual conversations with people, and I actually went to a party last night, but that wasn't enjoyable. My roommate and I pretty much do everything together and, I like her, but I don't want to only hang out with her. It seems like everyone is already getting in their groups/cliques and I don't want to be left out. Will I make friends once classes start?</p>
<p>You expect too much so early on.</p>
<p>Just be patient. You’ll do fine once classes start.</p>
<p>You moved in on Sunday and you’re already complaining?</p>
<p>Your situation is normal. You’ll be fine.</p>
<p>No offense, but what do you want us to do about it? Get off CC and go talk to people. If you’re in a freshmen dorm, knock on doors and introduce yourself. </p>
<p>And be patient. Chill.</p>
<p>Just go out and meet people. You’ll be fine. It’s only been two days.</p>
<p>You’ll be meeting new people all the time and developing friendships along the way… sometimes in ways that you didn’t expect. Perhaps join a club or two that you like. It’s easier to make friends when you share an interest.</p>
<p>“friends” are not something given like ur entitled to them… To earn friends, be a friend. It’s pretty simple. You do not get to choose anything else. BTW, cliques are highschool thing.</p>
<p>You’ve been there for like, two days. Chill out, you’ll get some at some point.</p>
<p>Ok. People take this lightly, but it is serious. My freshman year, with taking classes that were above my level, having a heavy load, and being shy, I didn’t make many friends. It got to the point where I was legit suicidal. Now I’m a sophomore a week and a half in. I don’t have any “best friends” at college yet, but I’ve met some acquaintances. Best idea I had, was “Ok. In the first couple of weeks I’m going to talk to a good bit of people in my classes and get their info in case I miss class.” That always starts up a conversation. Ask their major, where they’re from, etc, etc. And ask for their number in case you miss class. Has worked with everyone I’ve done it on so far. But I know where you’re coming from. I am 4 hours away from my hometown, and if it wouldn’t have been for my friends back home, I wouldn’t have made it through my freshman year. But yeah. Like people have said, you have to initiate the conversation. You can’t wait around. If you wait too long, even though there’s always a right time to make friends, you might feel like everyone has already got friends. I know the feeling.</p>