I want to change when I go to college, be more of a man

Pre-College Topics High School Life
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<p>High school sucked for me. Parents were extremely strict and I could not have fun. I have/had friends but they rarely talk to me or hang out with me because they know I wont be able to go (because of my parents). I never had a girlfriend or had any real fun. I just studied and did my work. My voice is not deep at all and I take a lot of heat for it. My teeth sucked but now i have braces and its getting better. I am going to buy clothes so I look good as well (worked full time this summer). I am going to a good school (can't say what school though sorry), but it has prestige and good ranking. I love the school I am going to, college is amazing, but I dont want the same thing in high school. I want to get girls, be confident, and not be so skinny. I am currently working out and have been for the last 7 weeks. Hopefully i change, but I think i dotn have a lot of testostorone. How I can be more manly? I only have 10 days until college, I want to have a deeper voice, honestly that would make me happy. I worked so hard this summer and im sick of everything. I want to be confident and happy, but im tired of girls being so cold and my friends not being there for me. I was always just the "val" at my school who they only came to for help.I graduated a year early in HS to start over in college. I want to make these years the best. Please I tried everything, but give me tips to look and be more manly. I look like a kid and im tired of it. This is NOT a troll, i made a new account so people would not know who I am/what college I go to. I know you'll say im fine the way i am... But I am not. I just want to be confident. </p>

<p>Should I fake a deeper voice? I have been practicing but none of the voices I fake I like, most guys my age have deeper voices mines has always stayed the same. I want my own unique deep voice</p>

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<p>I honestly don’t think you should bother with changing your voice, by now it won’t change much anyways. But good luck with getting tone.</p>

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<p>Drink beer whilst watching football, use a chainsaw, over-compensate when choosing a car, grilled steak for breakfast, change your name to Duncan Steel, get in a fight and make something explode. Yep that outta do it.</p>

<p>In all seriousness, do not fake a deeper voice and you can go to the gym but do not make a big deal about it (especially when you’re still skinny). </p>

<p>I don’t know what the problem is, I would say be more confident but it seems as though that won’t be easily achieved. What ever you do, don’t appear a try hard, nothing looks worse than that.</p>

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<p>You see being more of a man as a solution to your troubles. okay, i don’t know what advice I can give you to further you towards this aim, but you seem to already have a good idea of what to do (like others though i wouldn’t advise faking a deeper voice…). </p>

<p>Also, if being more of a man fails to solve your problems hope is not lost - you can always try something else.</p>

<p>Sounds like your parents impinged on your development. Sorry for that :(.</p>

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<p>Obvious ■■■■■, boys.</p>

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<p>How is this a ■■■■■, and yea i was sheltered, never really went out or had fun. I like girls,but because i was so socially awkward when i started talking to them it never worked out. finally im not socially awkward… just not a deep voice. I never really talked much and i try not to anymore i hate hearing my voice, it really hurts me inside. I wont try to deepen my voice but what can i do to not appear if im not trying hard.</p>

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<p>just made an account, only 2 posts. </p>

<p>Obvious ■■■■■</p>

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<p>I don’t believe he is a ■■■■■, but I am not certain.</p>

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<p>If you can deliver your words more effectively, then that could make up for your voice.</p>

<p>Take Fight Club. If you sound like a ***** like the narrator you’re ****ed.</p>

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<p>Actually, two more things.</p>

<p>1) Confidence</p>

<p>2) Why did you post this on CC where everyone hooks up with books and protractors faster than love interests? Assuming that was a real post of course :P</p>

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<p>You can try to fake a deep voice. I do it all the time, and I get more respect from strangers when I do it…</p>

<p>Also, try to dress nicer. Worked for me…</p>

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<p>I don’t think most girls care if your voice is deep or not. I know I don’t. I’m also pretty sure that you can’t do anything to get a deep voice. Maybe someday your voice will be deep, maybe it won’t, it doesn’t matter.
Standing up straight with your chin held high makes a huge difference in how people will view you.
Looks aren’t everything, be yourself. Unless you are a jerk then you should work on being a not jerk. Don’t just sit and sulk about your not deep voice.</p>

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<ol>
<li>Get down to business</li>
<li>Defeat the Huns</li>
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<p>simple, no?</p>

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<p>I used CC for getting through last year and applying to colleges, everyone here is amazing and i wouldnt have gotten through it without CC. I know there are a lot of smart and amazing people on here that i want to be like so thats why i posted here</p>

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<p>It could be a ■■■■■, but usually the intention of a ■■■■■ post is to create something overtly sensational to generate a response. This story probably resonates with many a to-be university student. </p>

<p>Anyway, all I can say is what was told to me: “Many people go into college as virgins, but very few come out as virgins.”</p>

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<p>I think im going to get a blood test to see if it is low testostrone</p>

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<p>Im confused, are you going to be a sophomore or a freshman? whatever you do, dont try to change your voice.</p>

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<p>I will be a freshman this fall</p>

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<p>@Wiscongene</p>

<p>Are you implying that until you lose your virginity you are less of a man?</p>

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<p>^ I think Wiscongene was implying that OP needs to keep his head up because he’ll get the results he wants, sooner or later.</p>