Ideal Girl/Guy

<p>I don’t like sports. If I guy is athletic he would probably want me to be athletic, too. I’m obviously not. And if a guy played sports, there is probably a good chance he watches sports and cares about it and knows many sports names. Yeah… I couldn’t care less.</p>

<p>And non-sports guys are more sensitive. :] I can’t see a photographer being sporty.</p>

<p>@fuzzleshnops, this is the breakdown :P</p>

<p>“Appearance: Not too tall (5’8 to ~6’). More on the skinny side. Preferably has small guages in his ears. Has disheveled hair, but not too long. He must have dreamy eyes (sorry, no asians). He must make me feel alive inside (not in a sexual way :P). He has to have this beautiful sense of grace about him.”</p>

<p>–I have a height fetish <em>blush</em>. So short wouldn’t do for me. Also I don’t like guages at all.</p>

<p>“Dress: I don’t care.”</p>

<p>–I CARE A LOT! And cologne is another biiiiig turn on for me. </p>

<p>“Personality: Very sweet. Him feeling nervous around me would be cute. Silliness would be appreciated. And he’d have to be slightly geeky/nerdy/dorky. He MUST be passionate about something, whether it be film, photography, art, history, etc. (preferably something artsy)”</p>

<p>–I don’t want someone who’s nerdy really. And I don’t care about passions. I don’t want someone who’s nervous around me. I do agree with silliness though :P</p>

<p>“Morals: Must like weed. Must be a lover, not a fighter. Family/Relationships should come before everything else.”</p>

<p>–Agreed. Not a fan of the weed- I’d prefer someone who was a social-weed smoker as opposed to doing it every day.</p>

<p>“Intelligence: I don’t care as long as his IQ is at least 100.”</p>

<p>–Eh, sure. I didn’t have too strong an opinion in this category.</p>

<p>“Other: Being foreign (European) is a major plus!”</p>

<p>–I don’t really want someone foreign/with an accent. And I’m not particularly fond of European guys (not that I dislike them, but I’m not one of those girls who goes bananas over a british accent.)</p>

<p>So, theres nothing really wrong with your guy- just not my type :P</p>

<p>^ An american girl who DOESN’T go crazy over a British Accent? I have hound that such girls only exist in theory…</p>

<p>And non-sports guys are more sensitive. :] I can’t see a photographer being sporty.</p>

<p>That is sort-of closed minded.
If track is considered a sport, I do it. But I also suck. And I think I’m sensitive.</p>

<p>However, I know plenty of sensitive sports players who know things about sports.
Plenty of sensitive of sports players who don’t know much about sports.
Plenty of non-sports players who are sensitive and know sports.
Plenty of non-sports players who aren’t sensitive.
People who like photography AND sports.</p>

<p>ETC…</p>

<p>Photography is a sport. It’s just the ******* that play. :smiley: jk jk.</p>

<p>And I know a couple people with gauges. They look like the hurt as hell.</p>

<p>Track, tennis and crew don’t count.</p>

<p>I didn’t mean a pothead. I meant more like smoking on the weekends.</p>

<p>French > Italian > German > British accent.</p>

<p>Guages are such a big turn on. ^_^</p>

<p>I’d also like to add to my list “no weird fetishes.”</p>

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<p>Why those sports if I may ask</p>

<p>Outward specs:
Height: Non-issue, I’m a shorty. Build: Must be wider than my flute.
Dress: Neat, ie you won’t get a date if you’re “Lookin’ like a fool with your pants on the ground.” or consistently have food stains on your clothes. I do have a weak spot for nerdy screen t-shirts.
Mental capabilities:
Personality: Passionate or confrontational. I love seeing people’s eyes light up at the mere mention of their loves. And my current boyfriend was my best friend first, so he bears no qualms about proving me wrong or getting into an intellectual argument.
Intelligence: So long as my boo tries to use his brain to max capacity, I don’t care if I’m on the arm of Einstein or an idiot savant.
Morals: I don’t need him to help me out of the car, however I’d hope that he’d be a gentleman to me and the other women in his life. </p>

<p>In summary, my ideal man would be able to stimulate me emotionally and intellectually from the moment we meet and after a length of time set me on fire physically. He’d never ask me to change who or what I was, yet just by existing, would compel me to be the best person I could possibly be.</p>

<p>Track, tennis and crew are more “intelligent” sports. Though, I’m not a big fan of the crew body type. It’s a bit too muscle-y.</p>

<p>I cannot stand the phrase “boo”…unless you’re referring to the ghosts from Super Mario World.</p>

<p>When you refer to track runners being more intelligent, I’m guessing you’re referring specifically to long distance runners.</p>

<p>Yes, cross country.</p>

<p>Height: I’m 5’7"ish so I prefer my guys tall. Above 5’10" would be ideal, but the guy’s got to have a proportionate body. I have an aversion to long torsos.</p>

<p>Looks: Eh. I usually go for the cute looking guys. Similar to mulberry’s description. But my tastes always change depending on the person I like at the moment :]</p>

<p>Dress: Casual, minimal sagging, no ketchup stains etc. But I really don’t care as long as they aren’t wearing brand name clothes every moment of their lives. </p>

<p>Personality: Funny, easy-going, sweet, interesting/quirky. Has a really cool outlook on life (whatever it may be). </p>

<p>Other: Intelligent. Athletic (as long as he can run without panting and is in good shape). Cooking would be a bonus. </p>

<p>I’m partial to volleyball guys. I just like how they’re tall and lean (not overly muscular). I also like hands for some reason. It doesn’t really sway my opinion too much, but I take good note of guys’ hands. haha</p>

<p>This is all just general stuff that makes me crush on guys. Love is another matter, but I don’t feel like typing out some saga. It’s not like I can predict it anyways.</p>

<p>My ideal guy:</p>

<p>. Height: My height or taller (I’m 5’10"… :/)
. Preferably brunettes, any color eyes, and normal body structure. Someone who is relatively neat and clean, but can still pull off a decent dishevelled look.
. I am a complete sucker for a nice, shy, smile and bright eyes.
. Oh, and a guy who smells nice is amazing as well.
. Be kind and polite and genuine. Being a gentlemen never hurts either.
. A guy who has a great sense of humor and can laugh at himself.
. A guy who likes a bit of thrill and adventure and random spontinatity.
. A guy who has passions and goals in life, they have an idea of where they are going and who they are.
. A guy I can have a conversation with that won’t be dull or filled with lulls, ranging from kindergarten antics to classical literature (basically anything)
. A guy who won’t make me feel worthless or unimportant. A guy who won’t insult me or be an arrogant a**, to both me and the important people in my life. A guy who doesn’t cuss contantly or criticizes everything.
. A guy who will admit when he is wrong and will not make a huff about it.
. Religious affiliation is not that important to me, as long as he doesn’t shove/force them on me
. Has to be drug free and not a drinker</p>

<p>Basically, I want to be with a guy who will love me for who I am; a guy who realizes that I won’t change myself to fit a fantasy idea just to be noticed. I want to be with someone who will inspire me and love me for as long as we shall live.</p>

<p>Hm lots of tall here. Yay for me :)</p>

<p>Appearance:No acne. Cannot be fat.
Dress: Needs to dress nicely. But not too fashionable. I despise the sweatpants look.
Personality: Somewhat aggressive, yet still submissive. Should be able to insult me well. Arrogant. Not overly sentimental and all that other crap. Subtle. Intriguing.
Intelligence: Equivalent. Maybe slightly less in some respects. Superior in some. Oh must adore biology but not understand it as well as me.</p>

<p>Pretty low expectations compared to most people on here actually.</p>

<p>Cat on kbrd. Typing w/ virtual one is slow, painful
Some people too picky.
Mine
-Not too ugly
-Some stuff in common
-Not annoying
-Intelligence about me
Um, that’s it</p>

<p>^^ should be able to insult you well? (just wondering)</p>

<p>meadow, you actually have high expectations. That personality + bio interest isn’t quite as common as the resounding “sweet, manners, interesting, funny” personalities on this thread =P</p>

<p>Meadow, I know a guy who fits your personality request perfectly.</p>