I have acquaintances but I don’t have any friends. Like there’s people I talk to in class and I got some people’s numbers last year but I don’t ever hang out with anybody. I got invited to some stuff last year but I couldn’t go because I had something else to do that night or early in the morning the next day.
I had a friend who I was supposed to room with this year but his parents made him transfer so now I’m really all alone. This really screwed me over because he had a good group of friends so naturally I could have made friends with them too. There’s a 50/50 chance he comes back next semester.
It also doesn’t help that I go to a small school without any Greek life. I feel as if everyone has already made a group of friends and aren’t interested in meeting new people.
The thing is, I’m not weird, smelly, obnoxious or anything like that. I’m pretty shy and I think that hurt me last year but I feel like EVERYONE was able to make friends except for the legitimately weird kids (I know I sound like a jerk, I don’t know how else to put it). I had a good group of friends in HS but I haven’t really made any in college.
However, a good friend of mine goes to a large state school a few hours away from home. I’m thinking about going there because it is cheaper (I’m currently at a private school), they actually have greek life, more clubs, more intramural sports, and a better support system for my major/career choice. What do you folk recommend?