<p>A couple of months ago i met a girl that i'd be going to college with. We mutually decided to room together. As time has gone on, i've gotten to know her a little bit more, she's done some things that i really hold moral values about. Like cheat on her boyfriend. It also concerns me a great deal that she drinks pretty much every weekend. That isn't what my social life has ever revolved around, i'll drink, but not often, i'm more of a 'movie night' kind of person. Call her "A."</p>
<p>Then, more recently i met another girl that i'll be going to school with call her "B." When potential roommate A told me that she lost her scholarship and probably couldn't go to the same college, i decided that i wanted to room with potential roommate B. I don't know B quite as well as A but she seems a fair amount more like me. She wants to focus in school, but also wants to have fun. And by fun, she doesn't mean drink all the time.</p>
<p>I guess what i'm asking is how to i tell A that i'm not going to room with her, but keep her as a friend. I want to be her friend, i just think that in tight living quarters we'll murder each other, or i'll end up partying to hard and not studying and ruining my life.</p>
<p>Ugh. I don't want to be brutal, i just want to be fair and honest, and tell her how it is, but do what i can, not to ruin a friendship.</p>
<p>Help!!!!</p>