i'm worried i'm too average - what are my chances at top schools like ivies?

Hard to tell. There’s a lot of info here on activities but not much on coursework, which is much more important.

The weighted GPA being nearly a full point higher tells me it’s a non-standard weighting system so it’s hard to tell much. A 3.8 would be below average for most Ivy applications.

It’s also very early to be developing any solid predictions.