<p>if she just said she doesn't really want a relationship right now, WAIT. you'll be around her 6 hours a day next year, so you'll have plenty of chances. don't ask now.</p>
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<p>Hm...sounds like he's playing jedi mind tricks with you. </p>
<p>He could be forgetting his calculator or just using the foot</a> in the door phenomenon and mere</a> exposure effect to get you to like him and no reject you! lol...social psychology is fun! :D </p>
<p>But in seriousness, most guys like me, are just forgetful and won't use such subtle hints...Probably more blunt ones...But maybe it's just the subconscious...Hm...</p>
<p>OK, here's what my guy/friend/both did: tested the waters first. Started asking me to hang out with just him, which wasn't unusual, but we'd do things we would usually have done with a group of mutual friends beforehand, like go out to eat or head up to starbucks, to the point where I couldn't tell if we were hanging out or going out. After about a month of that he changed his wording slightly: "hey I'd like to take you OUT to this place if you have the time after [insert school function here]" (caps mine). Gave me the perfect opportunity to reject him without being awkward (though, of course, I didn't say no and we're still good, and I'm fairly sure he'll remain one of my best friends even after we break up, so there's that). So, uh, be smart and subtle about what you do, take hints, and if it gets awkward, back off. But at least give it a try ;)</p>
<p>I agree with the fact that you should flirt with her more or at least 'test the waters' but if you really like her then just go for it, eventually at least. But don't wait forever. If she does know you like her and likes you back and is waiting for you to ask her out then you shouldn't waste time, because if you dwell on it too much she might lose interest or be caught up in some other guy.</p>
<p>Trust me, I've liked this one guy for like ever, couple of years and he knows it...he likes me too, but he was scared of committement so never asked me out. We talked about 'where is this going' a lot. But, now I don't like him anymore, and I think he still likes me, which is not good. -.-</p>
<p>So basically, test the waters, flirt, make sure of your decision and ask her.</p>
<p>I Gave the guy i like my fone number and we said we'd keep in touch...if he doenst call in a few days im moving on burying myself in my job which im going to apply for... in a minute</p>