It's my last year of HS...why not? but I'm having doubts...should I go for it or drop it?

Pre-College Issues High School Life
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<p>First off sorry, for the repost..no idea why my posts keeps disappearing from my computer...I saw that some people commented on my email;...but the post is gone!
as far as i can see, I'm not posting any homework help or advertising or bad talking anyone here so don't tihnk I'm breaking any rules here...</p>

<p>anyways, to business...</p>

<p>I asked my crush, Kat to prom on valentines day. she cried . I asked her two weeks ago againafter she told me she broke things off with her date and she had the biggest smile on her face...then when I followed up ,she texted me saying in passing that she had a boyfriend...</p>

<p>"idk yet, not sure how my bf is ganna feel about this ;)"</p>

<p>but she continues to flirt with me and give me encouraging signs to flirt back and even ask her out...</p>

<p>My girl friend later asks my crush's friends and they said apparently that she doesn't have a boyfriend but rather really likes this guy...then again, my crush knows this girl friend of mine tells me whatever she hears so what she's telling me could be what my crush wants me to hear? This is the same girl friend who told me that my crush liked me several months ago...</p>

<p>What do you think? She's either playing me or trying to get me to make a move...sooo should I make a move?</p>

<p>This is the first time she's ever done something like this...she knows I've liked her for several months now. I've asked her to prom, sent a heartfelt text message saying I liked her..,I could go on!</p>

<p>When we're in public, we flirt like mad but when we're alone NOW, things get awkward...at school in the halls when we're alone, I say hi to her and she gets really shy but I always "accidentally" bump into her in the halls. Beforehand, we could talk and flirt anywhere, alone or public...like there were alot of tmie when she'd sneak up on me and start talking to me and I would to her as well but now, I see much more of her...but we weren't not talking as much</p>

<p>WHY IS THAT? and what should I do?
I feel like I should take the chancecause like , last year gf high school and I think I'd regret it more if I dind't at least try? idk..what do you think? </p>

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<p>If you’ve had to post 3+ threads on CC about it, she’s not worth it.</p>

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<p>Personally, I wouldn’t pursue her. If you want to hang out with her during the summer go ahead, but I wouldn’t recommend trying to get a long term relationship right before you go to college; it isn’t worth the trouble. (Disclaimer: I didn’t say having a long distance relationship during college is bad; I’m staying with my gf no matter how far apart we are. I’m saying its not good to pursue a meaningful relationship a couple of months before you attend college) </p>

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<p>Let it go, bro.</p>

<p>If you’re a typical CC student, you probably have more to worry about than a girl anyway. </p>

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<p>Like I said in your other thread…
I get stressed out just reading this. There’s no point in trying to be in a relationship with someone who won’t be direct with you.</p>

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<p>Here’s a simple formula for you:</p>

<p>No fun + too much stress = No go.</p>

<p>Works in space too!</p>