<p>Up until know, I never focused on guys per se in attempt to keep up with my academics. But now, as a junior, I am completely infatuated with a guy that does not even know me. I do not know how it happened, but he just "clicked" and let me into this big stream of idealism.</p>
<p>The problem is, I never tried to 'get to know' a guy just because I like him. I don't even know how!! It just sounds so ackward. Especially since he is a senior and the only place where I see him is at the library, during lunch. Pathetic. </p>
<p>But yet again, I really want this. And how should I get it? How do you approach somebody that is not even an acquitance? How do you meet them?</p>
<p>Since he's at the library, during lunch, as are you, is it safe to assume that he is focused on his academics and college? That could always be a subject you could start a conversation with. If you're not shy and it's not too crowded there, you could always walk past and comment on a book he's got open, or ask him about a class he has you're planning to take next year.</p>
<p>Personally, what I would do is just look at an aisle of shelves right next to the table he's at, and set my stuff down there casually. Then, after a while, sit down, and say hi. :)</p>
<p>^^^ Lily415, your idea is amazing. School. That is the reason why I feel inferior to him, he is a saludictorian (apart from being good looking!!) I am not even close in itelligency :P</p>
<p>The problem is he lays on the couch!!! And there are no books by the couch, only a stack of magazines. I might ask him about a book he is got open or something... that sounds good. </p>
<p>My friend was telling me to come to the library before he does, sit right by the couch, jump right on the couch when he is walking towards it and then just smile and say, "just kidding." Then again, I laughed at the idea because is too far on the extroverted-annoying side. But it would be funny.</p>
<p>You should approach him and just ask him his name and tell him yours and then after that just smile at him every time you see him... guys love it when girls talk 2 them first i personally think its one of the hottest things a girl can do.</p>
<p>First things first, don't build him up to much, or have to many expectations, cause it will show through and could make him nervous</p>
<p>Ask if couch is comfy, say you hope you aren't disturbing his catnap, "look" for a magazine, if you get my drift, see which ones are beside him, and ask for it...no matter what it is</p>
<p>You could ask him a question. Be honest about it (it does no good to lie) but ask him something. Like, "Hey, do you have any idea what Mrs. Jones was talking about this morning? This limits-stuff is just going completely over my head." </p>
<p>On one hand, it's a perfectly honest way to start up a conversation. On the other hand, he'll feel good about himself. If he has the answer, he'll feel smart, and if he doesn't, he'll feel better knowing that someone else is as confused as he is. And boom. A good first impression.</p>
<p>Or you could just plop down and say, "Boy, I'm exhausted." Everyone always seems to agree with that one, no matter what time or day of the week it is, and everyone loves to tell exactly why their life is so hard. Great conversation-starter.</p>